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Small Win

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Today my Sea Cadet graduates from his “boot camp” in Pennsylvania.  The old me would have driven up the night before, gotten a hotel room…etc.  The new me, well, I got up at 3:30am this morning, got dressed, got kids in the car and hit the road.  Giving myself 30 extra minutes to get there based on estimated drive time.

I am planning on lunch out before we head back, because I know he’s going to have lots to tell and I want to focus on him rather than on driving before we start the 5 1/2 hour drive home.

11 hours of drive time today with a short break for his graduation and lunch, but no hotel or extra meal costs.  Yahoo for the small wins, especially making hard choices for this debt payoff journey!

Wrote this earlier this week, but by the time this publishes we’ll have been on the road for almost two hours.  Please send thoughts and prayers for safe travels today.

Capital One update

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Hey! I realized I have one more quick update to share with you guys!

Remember this situation? To jog your memory – someone from Capital One called and said there was an attempted fraudulent charge on my account, asked me to verify some info, then said they’d send a new card. I asked if this was a tactic designed to try to get customers to use their credit card (since mine has been laying dormant for months).

You guys (many, many readers) scared the crap out of me when you said I’d been scammed! I called Capital One and they couldn’t verify whether the attempted fraud call had come from them or not. They said they’d change the account number and send me a new card (with new account number). They said someone from the fraud department would follow up with me.

Well, no one from fraud ever called.

But about a week after that incident, I got 2 letters from Capital One. The first had a new credit card (same number as the old card). The second had another new card (with new account number). Sooooo, I think that solves the mystery. The call alerting me about the attempted fraud was definitely from them (since they did, in fact, send me a new card). I think the fraud department still should have contacted me, but since I’d explained my concerns to the call center employee, I’m sure there were notes in the system and the fraud person would have easily been able to see that there was no actual fraud that took place (only a misunderstanding when I thought I might have been getting phished, but actually got a phone call from them).

This brings me back around to my original point though….. I still think this might have been a tactic to try to get me to use my card by bringing it to my attention and sending me out a new card so its right at my fingertips (instead of locked away in my safe). It didn’t work. I’ve actually never even called to activate the new card (though I guess I should? Is there any disadvantage not to? I don’t want to actually close the account since it would impact the length of my credit history).

That’s all – one last update for today. Now I think we’re all caught up for the most part. I do have a bit of a secret to divulge (which directly impacts our finances), but that’s going to have to wait for probably another week. Like that little teaser? I’m keeping you on the seat of your pants! haha! Really though, after this whole incident (when I lost a bit of my anonymity), I feel the need to be more cautious about what I say and when. I’ll spill the beans eventually, but I need a little more time. NO – I AM NOT PREGNANT! hahahaha!!!

Have a good weekend guys!!!