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Is this what Detox feels like?

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We are closing in on the last few hours of a three-day holiday weekend.  Remember we set the goal of being very frugal using what we already had to have a get together with friends?  I am happy to report that as of 1 pm CST on this Memorial Day…we are “frivolous spending free” but it has NOT been easy!  

We have eaten every meal at home or with “at home” supplies since Friday.  That doesn’t sound like a huge deal but if you could watch this happening you’d see what a huge challenge it is for us.  We are kid free this weekend with the kiddos visiting their other parents and that seems to make avoiding spending harder!  When we only have the 2 of us we can completely rationalize just how cheap a meal out will be since we are accustomed to comparing it to the large group.  We can also justify eating out b/c we don’t want to mess up the kitchen–it so rarely has such clean countertops after all!  Let’s see what other excuses have we come up with?  We are doing some clean out of the garage and closets so then we get on this “reward” thought process and since we are gathering things to MAKE money…obviously we should get to SPEND money NOW! 

Last night on the drive home from our friends’ house I was REALLY craving fast food.  Ugh. Why?  I had food all day but the craving was there.  Some of you might be familiar with Whataburger…I believe this is a Texas only thing but man did I want a Whataburger!!!! Steve gently encouraged me to hang on and we’d get a snack at the house.  It worked and I felt much better about things both financially and calorically (is that a word?!)–a bowl of my favorite Life cereal was definitely the better option.

Now here we are today and Steve did the lawn and cleaned out the garage.  He’s facing the temptation now saying he just wants to go get a bite to eat!  I did my best to encourage him to stay strong and I could make something yummy for brunch.  His response at that moment was that he wasn’t hungry just yet so as I type this, the jury is still out.  I will start whipping up something in a moment and hope we can make it through this holiday weekend without falling off the wagon! 

I want you all to picture two pathetically desperate people battling the spending demon as you read this! 🙂

My Cup of Coffee Rule

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This is a guest post from Debt and the Girl blog who writes about her student loans, mortgage, credit cards, and her other priorities.

Do you ever feel overwhelmed by the endless supply of budgeting advice these days? I see tons of articles that tell me how to break up my budget every which way and then some. I, for one, am trying to live a simpler life. I try to pick out the best information that I can for my financial situation, but I know I would go crazy if I paid attention to every little thing out there. This is why I came up with a little rule that has helped me put things in perspective from an economic point: the cup off coffee rule.

Many people take for granted their cup of coffee (or other favorite beverage) in the morning. It is something very simple that can bring an immeasurable amount of joy. Many would not be able to function without their coffee and, therefore must have it to feel good. I find that this is a way to measure your finance as well.

How much does a cup of coffee cost in your area? One dollar? Two? Whatever it is, it’s probably not very much. Okay, now let me tell you a little story. Back in college, I was a spendthrift type of person (to say the least). No, seriously, I had packages coming daily to my dorm room from all sorts of lovely online shops that were only too happy to take my credit card. I was also a broke college student with little in terms of employment as I went to school full time.

One day, it was particularly cold outside as it had been snowing for a few days. The roads were paved with ice and everyone on campus was bundled up to the neck. I remember thinking how much I wanted a cup of coffee and, luckily, I saw a nearby cafe. I jetted inside and ordered some java but my credit card was declined. I left that cafe feeling colder and more embarrassed than ever and I immediately began thinking about all the money I had wasted buying unnecessary things that I could have really used to buy that coffee with. It made me feel like two feet tall that day. The truth is when you waste money on things, then it can be preventing you from doing something else in the future that might be important to you. I ended up just going home.

I decided from that point on that I always wanted to be able to afford a cup of coffee and not think twice about it. This may seem silly or overly simplistic to someone else, but I find it very helpful. This means that I need to make sure that I budget my money carefully today so I don’t have to worry as much about tomorrow. Does this rule solve everything in regards to budgeting? Absolutely not, but I find that it does give me motivation to lead a more satisfying life. If I woke up tomorrow and I couldn’t even afford a cup of coffee again without going into a financial panic, then I know I am doing something wrong. However, I would like to stress that you should try and make your own coffee and take it to work as much as possible. After all, it is a great way to save money and isn’t what this is all about?

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