by Claire
I was bombarded by the message “stop making excuses” today. I don’t mean that I heard that directly or that I said it directly…but instead I’m talking about multiple instances of hearing totally random people making excuses for their respective “bad” situations.
A lady in front of me in line was on her cell phone explaining to someone why she can’t stay at her current job. The person on the other end was obviously encouraging her to keep the job and not make any rash decisions. I gathered there had been a string of “bad jobs” and that this person kept leaving them before finding something new.
A caller on a radio show called in to discuss why he quit school because he was experiencing stress related illnesses. He needed some time to gather his thoughts and needed to do that while living with his parents.
An acquiantance that I ran into on the office elevator randomly shared that she was broke but was still going to stop at the mall on the way home after leaving the office. She needed something to feel better about this no good, terrible day and she was owed a shopping trip.
I think back to the many excuses I made for why I couldn’t start getting out of debt NOW (before I started this blog) and cringe. There was probably someone listening to me on the elevator or overhearing a telephone conversation thinking I was just one big excuse maker.
I’m not writing this to judge the folks I ran into today as everyone’s circumstances are their own and I can’t pretend to know where those individuals are in this life– but instead share for two main reasons. First, to say how pleased I am that I’m done–for the most part–with making excuses and putting of debt payoff. Secondly, I am compelled to share just in case some you had an excuse making sort of day. Today might just be the day that you are destined to stop making excuses about why you can’t avoid new debt right now and why you can’t pay down debt right now. Challenge yourself to stop that madness today! You won’t regret it! (okay maybe there will be days you DO regret it but the pros so quickly outweigh the cons that you just need to take that first step!)
