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I Do Now I Don’t

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www.idonowidon’t.com 

Has anyone heard of this website?  I remember a friend mentioning it in passing the first time Steve moved out but I didn’t give it much thought at the time.   Now that things are completely over I am ready to investigate.  It helps that Steve totally tried to screw me over on taxes and I need $5,000 to give the IRS by March 28.  I’d like to keep my emergency fund as intact as possible so it sounds delightful to have Steve indirectly pay for the tax bill by selling my wedding rings and his (that I made him take off and leave on the day of his move out—he hesitated because at that time I really think he thought there was a chance to play this game again). As you all know I’m sure, I’m not going to get a lot of money by trying to sell it to a jeweler.  I remembered this website and so I’ve started looking into it.  I thought I’d open it up to the readers in case any of you have better ideas or know something about this website.  It appears that there are two options.  You can auction the items like ebay or you can get a direct offer from the company.  Oh and you’ll love this tidbit:  Steve took a pre-marital 401K withdrawal to buy the stupid ring to begin with!  I didn’t know THAT until we had to pay the penalties for tax year 2009.

For those of you wondering, I will not be adding this $5,000 to my debt list.  I have a date certain that it must be paid and I refuse to consider it part of my “blogging away debt.”  Instead I am making plans to “find” $5,000 while still paying down my debt according to plan.  The tax nightmare has only just begun…not for me though.  I’ve “righted” everything and have a plan to pay what I owe.  So glad I’m no longer connected to that train.

Teacher and Friend Gifts

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When I shared my holiday budget a few days ago I didn’t go into my budget for teachers, co-workers, neighbors and other friends.  Here’s another place where Pampered Chef has paid off.  In addition to the commission I earned that has nicely padded my emergency fund, I earned those “Pampered Chef Dollars.”  With $300 to spend I was able to get everyone a small something and able to keep $100 for later.  It’s nice to not have to touch my regular budget for these items!  I haven’t done much with PC this month for obvious reasons (the divorce, the holidays), but I look forward to jump starting my real food business in January.  I also woke up today with a fun idea to incorporate couples by having an event in February.  Many of my friends have been discussing how we can get their husbands and boyfriends involved so a couples’ event of cooking real food sounds perfect for Valentine’s Day.  I really do enjoy this real food stuff and to be making money at it is a complete bonus.

If I can get through the holiday season and just spend my kid budget I will be SO proud!