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Birthday Expenses

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Saturday was my little man’s birthday party.  And let me tell you, these things wear me out!  Cleaning the whole entire house, cooking all the food, decorating the house according to the party’s theme.  All of this does such a toll.  Almost four days non stop if you count in Easter.

But all in all, it was a huge success!  Probably the most people we had in our house at any given time.  To top it all off, it was such a beautiful day.  I had an idea that I would be grilling in the rain or something.  Which turned out to be a faulty gut feeling, what a relief.

Everyone knows that birthday parties can be such a financial burden but I am happy with what we paid for everything.  Here is a breakdown of all the costs…

$23.96 – All the decorations (Paid back in March)

$49.82 – Gift Basket (Got all from Oriental Trading, which helped save lots of money for 16 kids)

$95.39 – Our Son’s Gift (Had on Layaway since January, so also didn’t spend much this month)

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$169.27 – Total Spent

Now this amount would have added to an even bigger amount, since as you can see that no where in here did I give a price on food and cake.  I got all of my food for free.  For the last two weeks I have been waking up at 2:30 in the morning, to help my best friend do a newspaper route of his.  His truck broke down and the vehicle was deemed totaled.  He paid me about $125 for gas, which was all I asked him to do.  Well he took it upon himself to demand I give him a way he could help me out.  He knows that I did this because I love him, and wasn’t expecting anything in return.  

He kept bugging me and bugging me on how he could repay me back.  I know he doesn’t have much money and I really didn’t have anything in mind, when all of a sudden a thought got put in my head.  He owns a restaurant, so I told him that he could get all the food for my son’s birthday party.  I needed 10 lbs of hamburger meat, 8 lb Pork Butt, Hot Dogs, Buns, and Potato Salad.  This was about $70-$90 dollars of value.  It wouldn’t cost him any extra out of pocket, since all these he had at the restaurant.  So we were both satisfied.  Back in the day I used to do wedding cakes and I was pretty good at it.  Even though I hate baking, I made my son’s cake, so it cost a total of about $6 for the products I used, but I had everything on hand, so no out of pocket.  

I got a raise!!!

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Can I get a “woohooo!!!!”

But before we get too excited, let’s have a little #truth.

I don’ know if you can really consider it a “raise” because what happened is I took on additional work. So, yeah, my income is going to raise (and not by just chump change…a pretty decent upward improvement), but it is in exchange for additional work.

It was a bit unexpected, but I’m very grateful for it. Even though I’m not an “employee” (I work on a contract-basis), I still somehow feel like a very valuable “team member” at this particular university, we’ll call it University A (remember – I work for multiple universities, but I don’t feel comfortable divulging where). I feel well compensated for my work and have established a great working relationship with the faculty, administrative staff, and other contract-employees as well (all done through distance & technology – pretty amazing!)

So I’ve given it a great deal of thought and, although this may disappoint some, I think this new development has rendered this conversation moot. I hope you will not be angry with me! I had been thinking about reducing daycare to save money for a LONG time….it was not something I was just spouting off randomly and have taken back just as suddenly. Instead, I’ve made the calculated decision to leave our situation as-is for now (care 3 days a week instead of reducing to 2). The additional work I have picked up more than makes up for the $200 in savings per month, many times over. And with additional work, I really believe I’ll need the extra day of childcare per week. Also, as an aside, last week the girls were only in daycare 2 days instead of 3 (the provider had a pre-planned trip that left us out-of-care for a day). OF COURSE, this is when the WORST ALLERGIES OF MY LIFE hit! I felt like I was dying from the sinus pressure, migraine, non-stop sneezing, etc. I looked like I had pink eye because my eyes were so puffy, swollen, red, and watery (I took a picture, but I’ll spare you the gory image). Let’s just say….very little work got done. And now I’m way behind (and I don’t get paid until my work is done, so that’s a problem!) And it just made me recognize how valuable our current childcare situation is. $50 WELL SPENT, if you ask me!

That was a long side-note – let’s get back to the employment situation…

Of course with contract situations there is no guarantee of ongoing work. But, so far, I have been made to feel very safe and secure in our current situation at University A. I will say that this situation is with online teaching, so I get a new contract every semester. I don’t see the current situation changing anytime soon.

With my other “employer” (said in quotations because, again, I’m not technically an employee since its a contract-based job…we’ll call this University B), there is not as much job security. This job is mostly research-based, so whenever the current project is completed I could be out of a job. At this point I’ve been working with University B for 6 months and have worked through completion of 4 separate projects (being asked back after the completion of each previous project). But this “raise” makes me feel much more comfortable because previously I earned my pay approximately 50% from each (research job and teaching job, respectively). This additional work (and associated pay) tips the scale to where I am now earning my full “old” salary solely at the teaching job. Any money from the research job is just gravy. So, as long as the research job continues, I’m coming out ahead. If the research job were to cease today, I’d still be making the same salary I’ve been accustomed to.

Doing contract-based work certainly requires some flexibility. You never know what the future holds and there’s no guarantees about anything.

But, with that said, a little birdie told me I could potentially be expecting another “raise” come the Fall semester at University A. *fingers crossed*  We’ll see!!!