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Delaying my Student Loan Payoff

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At the end of this week, I will have all the money needed to pay off the smaller of my two students loans. However, I am not going to make that payment this month.

As of the writing of this email, I have accepted an offer to return to corporate as a full time employee. The official start date for my new role and salary is January 11, 2021. My title will be Production Operations Senior Manager and I will be working for a large financial services organization in their marketing department.  My salary will be 6 figures plus quarterly bonus based on hitting benchmarks.

It is the same company I’ve been freelancing as their part time marketing project manager for the last 4 months. And I will continue in my current role until the end of this month at the same rate and hourly commitment, which is not full time.

Transition Plan

For the month of January, I will continue to put in substantial part time hours with existing clients. This will allow me transition out of my roles and responsibilities for them. The goal is to give them time to find replacements and help train them. And yes, the new corporate job is aware of this transition plan and the time requirements.

I am not completely shuttering my business as I plan to continue to support my website clients and a few other clients who I do small projects for on a regular basis – blog writing for a psychotherapist, ministry newsletter for a missionary, etc. I enjoy the work, I’ve been doing it for 14 plus years and frankly, it just feels safer at this time.

Why the Hold on Debt Payments

I am not clear on the new payment schedule, what my actual take home pay will be and other money stuff with this transition. In order to be on the safe side, I have decided to hold the cushion that is earmarked for debt until my new pay begins. I also have 11 days in there where I believe I have plenty of work…but anything could happen between the end of the year and the 11th.

While this decision will delay my payoff of this student debt by, hopefully, no more than a month, it gives me a great level of comfort on the financial front. It will cost me around $15ish dollars in interest.

So hang in there with me…January should be a BIG month on the financial front. Increased salary, complete change in work and smaller student loan paid off. Not to mention, after I see what my new take home pay will be, I will create a new plan. I already know what I’m going to focus on, just don’t know how it will look with the new income.

The Lesson of the Fake Cabbage Patch Kid

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The Lesson of the Fake Cabbage Patch Doll

The year was 1983. Cabbage Patch Kids were all the rage. I was two years old with four older sisters. And we ALL asked for a Cabbage Patch Kid for Christmas (along with thousands of other children).

Money was tight for my parents, but they really wanted to pull through on this one. Marketers played the game so well that dolls couldn’t stay on the shelves. People were camping out all night and rioting just to get a Cabbage Patch Kid. The holiday supply-and-demand hysteria was born!

My parents asked all my extended family across the country to help look for dolls. Relatives searched in Tennessee, Virginia, California. They didn’t care if the doll was a boy or a girl, wearing an outfit they thought we’d like or what. They just needed a legit Cabbage Patch Kid.

Their perseverance paid off. As Christmas neared, they had gathered four. They just needed one more. And then a solution appeared: my mom was at a bazaar when she saw a knockoff Cabbage Patch-ish doll that was pretty darn close. She bought it immediately and planned to give it to me, their tiniest and least observant child.

On Christmas morning, we came out to see that Santa had lined the dolls up for us on the couch (pointedly out of the boxes so it wouldn’t bring attention to the fact that mine was different). My mom had even sewn little blankets and pillows with matching fabric for our dolls. We were all in love. I had no idea I had a fake one, and my parents were high-fiving.

I named my doll Kelly, and she quickly became my right-hand gal. We did everything together. I started telling wild stories about things Kelly and I did together. We saw a tiger in the backyard! We went to the mall just the two of us!

Kelly was so loved, however, that the threads holding her head on began to wear out. Apparently I was heavy on the head-hugging. Without the security of high-quality machine stitching, her head eventually fell off completely. OH. THE. HORROR.

Fortunately, my mom sewed it back on. Only to have it fall off again. So she attached it again. Repeatedly.

Kelly losing her head became a key feature of my childhood. The worst part was every time her head fell off, my sisters would set it on their shoulders and sing, “Put your head on my shoullllderrrr.” It would send me into a RAGE. My sisters can still laugh to tears talking about it. Poor Kelly!

The Lesson of the Fake Cabbage Patch Kid

But here’s the kicker: I still have Kelly. My kids play with her. Sure, she still pops seams. I resewed her shoulder recently (surgery went well, thanks for asking), and I texted my mom a picture. She made a joke about “Put Your Head on My Shoulder” (et tu, Brute?), but then said, “You sure loved that doll. I bet none of your other sisters still have their doll.”

And she’s right. None of them still have theirs. My cheap, fake Cabbage Patch Kid outlasted and outloved the real ones.

When it comes to gift-giving, we put pressure on ourselves to make things perfect. Marketers feed into that. They create crazes and the feeling of scarcity. Especially after such a rough year, we all want to feel some holiday magic. But the reality is there is nothing I can buy for Christmas that will heal the mental pain of this pandemic. And there’s no amount of money that will create the elusive perfect Christmas.

I think there’s a lesson with this faux Cabbage Patch Kid. Showing people you thought about them and care about them? That matters. Staying under budget and not stressing yourself out matters. As much as your kid wants a crazy expensive or impossible-to-find toy, they want your calm even more.

Let’s not lose our heads this Christmas season. (Sorry, Kelly… I couldn’t resist.)