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Where Did Our Stimulus Go?

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As I’m sure most of you did, we received the latest stimulus check. We have four kids so it was a nice sized check. What did we do with it? I wish I could say we booked a nice vacation to Hawaii but, things definitely didn’t go that way.

 

We received the bill for my son’s ER visit and although it wasn’t as bad as I expected, it ended up being just shy of $1,000. It would have been less but since we went to Urgent Care first and then over to Children’s Hospital, we got hit with bills from both places.

 

My husband broke a tooth! We hoped to be able to save it, perhaps band-aid it together but our dentist told us it was unsalvageable and it had to be pulled. My husband decided to get an implant rather than have an open spot (and I agree!). His implant will be just over $2,000 when all is said and done. Yikes! He and I have both had implants before and we shop around every time but that’s the going rate for a quality implant here.

 

I have a cavity under a crown and I’m not sure how that will turn out. I’m planning for the worst and holding onto some funds to cover that expense. We go to our dentist regularly and for the most part we are cavity free! But when it rains at the dentist, it pours for us.

 

All three of these expenses could be paid by our Health Savings Account but since we have most of those funds tied in investments, we decided to pay out of pocket and leave those alone. In a family of 6, medical expenses are always going to be a part of our lives and if we have the cash now, it makes the most sense to do it this way. I’m always looking at mitigating risk down the road and storing up funds in the HSA is a good way to do that.

 

We split the rest between the truck fund and our upcoming Great Lakes trip. My husband’s truck is starting to go downhill and we are thinking we will need to replace it sooner than expected.  We were still a little short on gas funds and campground fees (for the trek out, it’s free while we are there) for our Great Lakes summer trip so that tidied up what we estimated our needs to be.

 

I’m hoping you made good choices with your check if you got one.

Prom – The Rush!

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Prom was last weekend. Needless to say, with me being sick for the 5 weeks leading up to this momentous occasion, we were not prepared. And all three teens were going.

Both girls were working Friday night…that meant, Gymnast and I jumped in the car and headed an hour away to find the outfits. (Thankfully, Princess bought a prom dress last year but it was cancelled so Beauty was the only one who needed a dress.)

The Suit

Our first top was Men’s Warehouse to find Gymnast a suit. He had ordered his bow tie, etc. online to match his date’s dress. But there is nowhere local to get a suit. And evidently with Men’s Warehouse, they don’t normally have cash and carry suits either. (It was a very different experience than pre-COVID days.)

But thankfully, the were empathetic to our plight and found him a suit and even hemmed the pants within the hour. Ninety-nine dollars later and we were headed dress shopping.

The Dress

We had the size and the preferred colors. Armed with our cell phones, we split up and sent pictures to Beauty at work as we scoured the department store for the perfect prom dress.

I need to back up a bit here…she had tried to find a dress locally (used or otherwise). But I will be honest, when I saw her options, I couldn’t in good conscious let her go to her senior prom like that. There were bad…BAD. It wasn’t about me, it was about her. I didn’t want her to be that girl. (Ladies, I know you know what I mean.)

Back to the dress shopping…we found 2 perfect dresses. And by we, I mean me, I am taking all the credit for finding the dress and Gymnast really is the one with good taste. I bought them both…after confirming the return policy. (No problem returning as long as tags were still on.)

The two dresses were $404. And yes, that hurt. Frankly, I’ve never spent that much ($200) on a single dress EVER. But again, blaming it on COVID brain and that I was already over tired while shopping and just wanted to be done.

(I have already returned the extra dress and am awaiting the refund to hit my card any day now.)

Prom was a Success

Despite the day before shopping, prom was a roaring success. Memories were made, dancing was done and everyone look fabulous. See for yourself below…

I’m glad Prom was able to happen. I’m glad they all got to go and had a great time. But I’m even more happy that I will only have one going from here on out…and it’s a boy. No prom dresses, nails, hair, jewelry required. But they were all really great about the lack of planning and preparation. They were kind and beautiful and truly all stepped up.