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Ashley’s February Budget Update

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After admittedly falling off the frugal train in the month of January, I think I did a much better job in February. You’ll see that not every single purchase was one of absolute necessity, but I also think I maintained a good balance of saving money, paying down debt, and getting a few things that were needed during the month. Here you go….
February Budget Update

Budget CategoryAmount Spent
Rent1055
Electricity158
Water60
Natural gas22
Sprint (2 lines)114
Cable/Internet99
Car Insurance165
Health Insurance394
Trash35
Preschool1040
Gift-Giving50
Personal Maintenance40*
Restaurants87
Entertainment35
Groceries310
Gasoline57
Household Goods115
Clothing22
Toddler purchases20
Rainy Day Savings625
Savings Goals500
Debt Payments2102
Total $7105

Let’s discuss….

  • Electricity. It’s weird that my electric bill this month was exactly the same as last month. At first I thought this was a mistake and double-checked, but this is the correct figure. Just a weird coincidence (note, I’ve been working to try to conserve electricity and the bill has gone down this month – wahoo!!)
  • Car Insurance. This got messed up this month because somehow husband’s truck ended up back on our personal insurance (instead of a separate policy in his company’s name). I’ve called to correct this so the bill should go back down again for next month.
  • Gift-Giving. We had several gift-giving occasions in February. This $50 figure includes a $30 photo book for my Mom’s birthday, my $5 classroom gift basket, and supplies for the Valentines we sent out to friends and family members (including pictures I had printed, postage, and a couple of cheap V-Day gifts I picked up from Dollar Tree for the girls).
  • Personal Maintenance. I put an asterisk next to this item because I didn’t actually spend any money during February on personal maintenance, but I plan to spend the money this month and wanted it set aside. I’m trying to decide what to do (may write a post about it), but am thinking I may get my hair done again before my big “not an interview” trip. It feels so soon, since I’d gone a full 9+ months without getting it done a single time, and then I went at the end of January before my ‘real interview’….but it’ll be a solid 9 weeks by the time I go on my next trip. Should I get a trim? Have my highlights touched up? Etc? I know I want to look sharp, so basically I set the money aside with the intention to use it this month. Not sure how (i.e., what I’ll be doing) or in what fashion (e.g., Groupon? Hair school?) yet. I’ll keep you posted.
  • Restaurants. We did better on eating out this month than we have in recent months (generally I set this at a $100 budget). However, we spent more in the next category than we usually do…
  • Entertainment. Some of this was little stuff ($3 for itunes songs; $6 to feed the giraffes at the zoo). The biggest splurge is that hubs and I actually went on a date this month! This was our first date since our anniversary in November, and we won’t be going on any dates for probably another couple of months so I’m okay with this expense. Just to be transparent, I paid for the actual “date” (movie tickets and snacks), and hubs paid for a babysitter separately, so this figure is lower than it would be if a babysitter were included here.
  • Groceries. Knocked it out of the park with groceries this month (we usually budget $400!!) I guess this makes up a bit for my overage in January, though it means I’m starting out March with a pretty bare pantry and fridge/freezer, and with it being such a tight month financially it means I’ll have to be creative with our dinner plans.
  • Household Goods. This category was also much higher than normal (usually we spend less than $30/month on household items). Some of it was just refilling some cleaning supplies (new kitchen scrub brush, laundry detergent), but I spent $40 on Round Up since our weeds have been out of control (side note – Costco is the cheapest place around for Round Up! I spent $40, but I got THREE of the big jugs-worth of weed killer, whereas Walmart sells the same stuff for $40 for only ONE of the big jugs of weed killer. Costco is the bomb.com)! The other large expense here was the YNAB software. I spent $54 for the YNAB software, but I think its money well spent (edited to add = I thought this was an annual expense, but a reader pointed out this is a one-time fee! Wahoo, I didn’t even realize that, makes it seem like an even better deal now!!!)
  • Toddler Purchases. $20 on gummy vitamins. I get two kinds: a multivitamin and an omega-3 vitamin. Also from Costco and much cheaper than I’ve seen anywhere else (even beats the sales prices at my local grocery store).
  • Rainy Day Savings. In YNAB I’ve made categories for all my savings needs. This month’s rainy day savings include: $200 (car repair fund), $125 (dental/vision), $100 (semi-annual fees), and $200 (a one-time pet expense saving). Remember when I was going to just put $500 toward my pet savings for the year? Yeah, too much money. But I made a good dent in it with the $200 savings (and then I promptly withdrew $51 to buy pet food). But still, that money will last for probably half the year, and I’m not planning to add any additional money to the pet savings right now since things are a bit tight.
  • Savings Goals. These are longer-term savings goals, not just for routine expenses. I saved $100 toward a Roth IRA, and $400 toward cruise 2016.

I said I was going to stop doing a full “anticipated budget” post for the current month, but just to give you a quick idea of how things are changing this month during our time of lower income….

In March I’ve done away with rainy day savings. I’ve changed all my Capital One 360 automatic savings plans so that nothing will be saved toward any of my rainy day funds in the month of March. I’ve also reduced my savings goals. I still have the $100 going toward a Roth IRA, but only $200 is going toward Cruise 2016 (instead of the $400 I’d initially planned). That’s a whopping total of $300 in overall savings in March…. compared to the $1125 I saved in the month of February.

This is yet another example of how having a lean month can be helpful. When I was really studying the budget and seeing where we could cut back, it’s hard not to notice that OVER A THOUSAND DOLLARS A MONTH IS GOING TO SAVINGS!!!!

How is this??? HOW!?!?!

We still had a decent debt payment (over $2,000; nearly 30% of our total income), but it was a bit of a shock to realize just how much is simply being set aside and saved on a monthly basis. When things get tight, the savings is the first thing to go! Just as a heads up, my debt payments will be much smaller this month, too. I’m just focusing on trying to pay all of our minimum obligations (okay, a little over the minimum, but not by much), and get through the month without any overspending. It’s been a long time since our income has been this low, and with the girls’ preschool accounting for nearly 25% of our take-home pay, regular bills (rent, utilities, insurances, etc.) accounting for another 50% of our take-home pay this month….there’s not a lot leftover for big-sized debt payments and non-discretionary spending (like groceries, gasoline, etc.).

But still, progress is progress. Any month that we’re moving forward is a good month, no matter by how little.

So there you have it.

How’d you do with your budget last month? Any big changes for this month?

Thank You Cards

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Rejection is a tough thing. It never feels good, does it?

I finally got the email I’d been expecting. I already said this before, but its official now. I did not get the job I recently interviewed for.

I suspected this was the case, as I’d been told the “winner” (for lack of a better term) would be notified in early February. But it still stings just a little.

But instead of being all boo-hoo and sorry for myself, it has made me so incredibly grateful for the job I do have. I make great money working part-time from home and I really enjoy what I do. Of course I wish I could transition into a full-time position, but that doesn’t make me any less grateful for my current employment situation.

As I lay in bed last night I was thinking about how lucky I am to have my current online teaching job. I’ve never fully explained how I got the position. While in grad school I made friends with several other graduate students. No big deal, right? Well, two of them went off to separate areas of the country, both landing academic jobs (let’s call them Sara and Kara). One of them (my current boss, Sara) was talking to the other (Kara) through text one day and asked about people who might be interested in this online teaching position. Kara mentioned my name, knowing that I’d recently graduated and would probably do a good job in the position. Sara, also having been one of my grad school friends, reached out and asked me about my interest in the position. I happily accepted and the rest is history.

Sara has been good to me. You may recall that this past boss’ day I spent entirely too much money on flowers (I think about $50-$60ish??) to be delivered to her office as a thank you for simply being an awesome boss. No joke – one of the top 5 bosses I’ve ever had in my life!

But I realized I’ve never done anything to thank Kara for hooking me up with Sara’s job. After all, it had been Kara who initially threw my name out. If Kara had suggested someone else, Sara may never have thought to contact me and I could be in a very different (UNEMPLOYED) situation right now.

I wanted to send Kara some flowers with a nice thank you note. That’s what you do, right?

But – you’ll be proud – I stopped myself!

Do I really need to send flowers as a thank you? Is that really the best way to handle the situation? It’s certainly not the cheapest, and Lord knows that we don’t have extra money to be throwing around this month!!!

So I’ve come up with a better plan: A hand-written thank you note.

No one sends hand-written cards anymore, do they? I mean, maybe a birthday card or a mother’s day card, but never a thank you card!! And I can actually write more than I would on the little auto-generated message thing you can include with flowers. I can really express my gratitude on a deeper level and let her know how thankful I am for that fateful conversation Kara had with Sara and how its impacted my life for the better.

But it gets even better….

I have a random Starbucks gift card (my mom got it from a client around Christmas time and gave it to me since she doesn’t drink coffee). I haven’t used it and think I’ll include it in the thank you card for Kara. Then it costs me nothing more than the time to write the card and the postage to mail it off. And it’s just a simple way to say thank you for hooking me up with my job.

But I don’t want to stop there.

The more I thought about this idea of sending out a hand-written thank you, the more I thought how meaningful and special it can be (even without the gift card inside). So I’m going to spend some time pondering this, and see if I can think of other people I’d really like to send a thank you to. I know how much happiness a simple thank you card would bring me, and I’d love to bless some of my friends with the same feeling. It feels good when people recognize what you do and appreciate you for it.

So that will be my cheap gift-giving for the month: some hand written thank you notes.

Why don’t you join me? I challenge you to come up with 2-3 people you’d like to send a thank you to, too! Why not spread a little happiness to others? We can always use a little boost and you never know how much it might brighten another’s day!

What do you do when you want to thank someone for something they’ve done? Do you have any other cheap ideas?