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And Now It’s Time for a Breakdown (Part 1)

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Name that tune.

Now that we’ve done the formal introductions, it’s time to get you acquainted with our debt situation.  We’ve been working on our mountain of debt for 3 years so far, and our goal is to make our last payment on my 35th birthday in July, 2017.

At this point in the journey, we’ve paid off all of our cars, some credit cards, and our undergraduate loans.  Still to go, we have 2 credit cards that are a testament to our ongoing financial lack of discipline, and my remaining graduate school loans.  Here are  the debts we’ve paid off so far.

Emily Credit Line$180
Orchard Bank Card$250
Short-term Loan$500
Prudential Insurance$1,000
Citi Private Student Loan$3,070
Ford Focus$9,365
Emily Dept. of Ed.$7,000
Emily Sallie Mae$6,350
Citi Credit Card$2,400
Lexus RX300$5,000
Adam Sallie Mae$15,200
Total Paid – July 2013$50,315

Emily’s credit line was a revolving loan she took on with her bank after college. Thankfully we knocked that out right away, along with the dreaded Orchard Bank card.

Short-term loan: During my first year of graduate school, my loans for the entire semester were disbursed at the beginning, and it was my job to budget my living expenses until the next disbursement in January.  As I approached Christmas my first year, I realized I wasn’t going to make it! This was one of the most stressful times of my entire life. I was worried I might not be able to go home for Christmas, get anyone any gifts, or anything else.  For the first time in my adult life, my bank account approached $0. I’m grateful that my school offered a $500 bridge loan that got me through the holidays, but it was on our snowball list when I graduated.  I definitely knew at that point that I didn’t want to be in that position ever again, to the extent that I could control it.

Prudential Insurance:  Chalk this up to the stupid tax.  My parents bought me a whole life policy when I was a baby. They paid the premiums and the policy was worth about $5000 when I was in high school. I wrecked my car during high school and had to get some repairs, and my mom suggested I borrow against this policy.  She paid the interest on the debt every year (about $30) until I was 26. I finally said I wanted to get that weight off my shoulders and paid that stupid debt back, cashed out the remaining policy amount and paid off some of our other debts. I’m glad to be rid of it.

Citi Private Loan: The hits keep coming. My junior year of college, I had the opportunity to study at Oxford University for 4 weeks during the summer. Of course my family couldn’t pay for this, so Uncle Citibank came to the rescue. It was a great study abroad program, but every month making that payment for several years so I could do a cool extracurricular was just maddening.  Thankfully we got that one eliminated.

Cars: These stories are worth a post of their own. We currently have a 2009 Ford Focus with 60k miles and a 2002 Lexus RX300 with 174k miles. We hope these cars last us until we are out of debt so we can buy our future cars in cash.

Credit card:  stupid stuff that I thought couldn’t wait, like school expenses, interview suits, a plane ticket for the holidays here and there, and suddenly we have a big credit card balance.  We’ll talk more about this as we go.

Student Loans:  Both Emily and I attended small private liberal arts schools.  She had more help from her family than I did, but we both ended up with about $15k in loans.  This May, 9 years after I graduated, I finally paid off that bachelor’s degree.

That’s the story on what we’ve paid so far! Next time we’ll get into the tsunami wall of remaining debt we have to tackle!

The Cost of Things

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We just got back from a week of visiting friends and family in Indiana, and we’re ready to pick up blogging again! The vacation was a big financial burden. The majority of the spending felt unavoidable. Unexpected expenses kept popping up along here and there, and i could feel the costs adding up in the back of my mind. the spending even felt kind of manic at times. I hate that out of control feeling! Even if money meant nothing to me, I would still hate spending $100 on airport parking and 15$ on crappy airport food. These are the kinds of things that push me right over the edge!

That said, it was a truly refreshing trip. I had been working around the clock billing clients and trying to finishing up as many projects as I could before we left and not realizing the incredible toll it was having on my overall wellness and my relationships. That sounds cliche, but it’s inescapably true. Over the week of vacation, I could feel my whole body and mind relax for the first time in a LONG time. On the last day, I was finally able to set aside the insistent budget thoughts, kick back, and enjoy time with my family.

It was not only relaxing, but eye-opening to spend time with our friends and family. Although they are all busy, each person was incredibly generous with their time and resources. The important people in our lives have every level of income, from $12,000 a year to millions. All were welcoming, shared their homes and lives, shared food and games and money and clothing and exchanged support for the challenges we are facing. Their generosity showed me that it is not about income or debt, rather, its a willingness to share what you have. When I feel overwhelmed by our budget or our debt looming overhead, I start hoarding money and time. I start feeling sorry for myself. its easy for me to forget that giving and sharing isn’t about money.

I think having debt and being on a budget makes me more grateful for the things we have and the things we ARE able to do. I see how easy it would be to think too much about what we DON’T have, and what we aren’t able to do… but it is much more rewarding to think about all the things we CAN do with our little bit of green. I am very grateful for the opportunity to work and make a living in Texas. There are many people that don’t have that blessing. I am also feeling very grateful that we were able to travel at all. I never want to take that for granted! Did you have a good holiday weekend? Are you feeling stressed about how much money you spent?

*Quick blog update* We plan to share our debt this week, and also share a bit more about budgeting and debt repayment as a team.

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