by Hope
Before you say it, I am struggling. Struggling with my kids growing up and moving out and being far away. I mean, I’m good, but it’s hard. My whole life has been built around being mom. It’s a real change to not be needed in that role so much.
So I did something…I got a puppy! A free puppy. Hello, Facebook Buy Nothing group! A whole litter was posted for free. They said the mom was a Shar pei, the dad unknown and they would be ready in 4-5 weeks. I jumped on it.

And here she is…my new baby, Addie! And yes, I do snuggle her every afternoon after work just like a baby. All my other dogs are adjusting and actually for the first time playing. It is amazing to see. (For those that don’t know, we’ve been fostering dogs for years, they are all older and pretty emotionally damaged from their previous life.)
Addie follows me everywhere inside and out. She is finally sleeping through the night. And I took her to Tractor Supply vet day for her first round of shots and de-worming (right around $100) a couple of weeks ago. She’s also started going to the weekly outdoor concerts with me in our tiny town.

This was her first time on a leash, so it was a learning experience. I realize this is something else for my budget. But more than that, this is for my mental health. She makes me happy and comforts me and gives me someone to play ball with…and I love her!

Hope is a resourceful, solutions-driven online business manager with over two decades of experience helping clients streamline operations, manage projects, and grow their businesses through digital marketing and technology.
But life has a way of rewriting your plans.
A year ago, Hope made the decision to move in with her aging parents full time – a season she wouldn’t trade, even as it came with its own financial and emotional weight. Earlier this year, she lost her mother, and is now walking the tender, disorienting path of grief while learning what “forward” looks like from here.
Hope came to the Blogging Away Debt community in 2015 as a single mom raising five foster and adoptive children. She’s written through job changes, financial setbacks, and the bittersweet transition to an empty nest. Her kids are finding their footing in the world now – and so is she.
Rooted in faith and fueled by the same perseverance she’s brought to every hard season, Hope is ready to face her finances with fresh eyes and an honest pen. She believes that clarity, courage, and community can change the trajectory of anyone’s story including her own.
She lives in Austin, TX with her dad, loves adventures with her dog Addie, and is figuring out, one step at a time, what this next chapter is meant to be.
