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Seeking Housing Advice!

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Our goal for 2022 was to settle in Texas, decide which city we want to move to, and purchase a fixer-upper house. We learned so much remodeling our San Diego house and considering that we can do almost all the work ourselves, it seems like the best decision financially. We can build a lot of sweat equity and may be able to pay completely in cash.

We’ve started preemptively looking so we can identify a good deal. We sit at the computer a couple times a week and have fun finding houses that look absolutely terrible. While we are open to cosmetic disasters, we are not open to structural disasters. We found a house that was barely standing and determined it would need to be completely torn down. The property was beautiful and it made us think…are we open to building a new house?

We started looking at land and discovered Texas is loaded with 1-2 acre parcels (our dream size) in predesigned neighborhoods for custom homes. The problem? We’ve never built a home from scratch. Sure, my husband has expertise in commercial new construction but residential? It’s a whole new world. We would need to hire subcontractors for the slab, framing, drywall, and roofing but everything else could be done by my husband if we are patient…and we’re really patient. We would live on the property in our trailer during construction.

I’m missing something, I’m sure of it. But I don’t know what I don’t know. Have you built your own house? Share your wisdom! Extra points if you have remodeled AND built from scratch and can compare the experience.

Happy Thanksgiving!

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I wish all you BAD readers a wonderful, relaxing, amazing Thanksgiving. I am thankful for:

-YOU! Your comments, your advice, your wisdom. Thank you for being the best part of this ride.

-Thanksgiving with family. We’re driving to spend my first thanksgiving in YEARS with my sweet sister in Kansas. I’m finally close enough!

-That Christmas shopping is DONE! Yup. DONE! And we kept it under $450. Each kid got about $100 in gifts which is plenty for them. Hubs and I decided to go giftless for each other again this year and I kinda like it. We had $1,000 in the budget but since things are tight this year, we decided to allocate the savings to other categories.

-That we have our health… well kinda. It’s looking like I’ll need minor surgery but it could be so much worse. Hubs and kids are thriving.

-That we didn’t have to take out debt despite all the craziness of moving and remodeling. It’s as if we’ve been working on our muscles this whole time and we survived the marathon! It gave us a lot of confidence in our ability to be creative and solve money problems together.

Friends, I have been so terribly fortunate. Life isn’t fair. I got the better end of the stick. If you are feeling like me today, I hope you take some time to count your blessings and give a little back to those who haven’t been so fortunate.

All the best.

Happy Thanksgiving.