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What To Do With An Inheritance

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We are set to receive an inheritance soon. This is one of those happy cases where no one has died (which, I would think, is the most common reason for inheritance?). Instead, a relative has liquidated some of their assets and decided to bequeath some to us now, while they are alive, versus waiting until they pass away.

It’s a good amount of money, but still in 5-digit territory (just to give a rough approximation of the amount). At one point in our younger lives, this money may have felt life-changing. Heck – I remember receiving an inheritance from my Grandfather for $10k when I was 22 and it definitely felt like a life-changing amount of money! This inheritance is much higher than that.

Our Current Financial Position

At this point in our lives, however, we don’t really need the money per se. We make enough to cover all of our bills. The only debts we have are my student loans (scheduled to be forgiven in October 2026), and our mortgage (on a super low 2.625% interest rate). We both have healthy retirement accounts, we’ve maxed out our Health Savings Account, I have healthy 529 accounts for the kids, and we also have a mix of financial investments in stocks, bonds, mutual funds, and CDs (outside of the retirement accounts).

Investment Ideas

Given that we don’t need the money to help pay bills, my thought is that we should invest it and let it grow. To me, the obvious next place to invest is in real estate. I’ve written before on the blog about my budding interest/desire to invest in real estate. To me, this is the next obvious spot to place an investment to help diversify our financial portfolio. The amount we are inheriting – it’s not enough to buy a house, but it’s certainly enough for a down payment large enough to avoid PMI (for a modestly priced home) and likely some leftover for repairs. Kind of like a rental house “Emergency Fund” separate from our normal emergency fund.

I’m pretty financially conservative, but hubby is even moreseo than me. I know his preference is to put the money toward our mortgage on our current home. He has a goal to own our home outright before he retires in 7 years. And while I love that as a goal, I’ve been pulling out calculators and running numbers to show how much more we stand to gain from another investment versus paying off our home early. And although we aren’t running out looking at real estate right this second…..I do think he’s come around and is cautiously on board.

Short-Term versus Long-Term Rentals

This brings me to my next conundrum. If in fact we go the real estate route – what kind of rental should we get? Selfishly, I like the idea of buying a house someplace a couple hours away that is more of an AirB&B vacation rental type place. That way, we can use and enjoy it as a family, and we will also make income from short-term renters. PROS of this approach: our family gets to enjoy it and take vacations for cheap; you can also stand to make potentially more money on short-term rentals. CONS of this approach: income is more inconsistent, and there’s a lot of hassle involved with oversight, management, cleaning in-between guests, etc.

The other alternative is to buy a house in-town someplace that we try to rent with a one-year (or longer-term) lease option. PROS of this approach: it’s a lot less hassle, and cleaning/upkeep is less. The income is more consistent month-over-month. CONS: it’s potentially less money than a short-term vacation rental, and we wouldn’t get to enjoy it as a family.

Making a Decision

While I lean toward the short-term rental option so our family could enjoy it, I’m also split because I like the idea of having less ongoing oversight and maintenance. Also, I have no idea how to manage an Air B&B so I know it would be a lot of work to get up and running.

If anyone has had both short-term and longer-term rentals, do you have any insight or opinions to share? I’m curious to hear from folks who have done both. Other factors that may weigh in on your decision – if we go this route, we plan to have a dedicated EF just for the rental, with enough money to cover a potentially “bigger” repair (like a new HVAC or new roof). Also, with our current incomes we can afford to pay the mortgage of both homes if we need to. It would make things tight at home and is not ideal, but it is possible to do if needed (this is more on a short-term than a long-term/ongoing basis).

For now, it stays put

Just as I’m in no hurry to buy a new-to-me car (see my last post), we also aren’t in a hurry to buy a home. Especially with higher interest rates right now, it might be wise to wait a bit and see if things come down. In the meantime, the money will be safe and sound in a money market mutual fund. But I like to think and plan ahead and diversifying seems like a wise financial decision.

You Are Right. I Need Help.

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I haven’t had a moment to sit down and actually read through BAD comments this month. My work load has been off the charts. But I saw one comment in passing and it stuck with me, and resonated on the deepest level. It was something to the effect of “your posts give me whiplash”.

And that is exactly how I have felt lately. I make a decision and then within weeks, if not days, I am second guessing it. And I feel like this has been going on for a couple of years now. My confidence is shot. For so many reasons.

That lack of confidence is adversely affecting so many things. Not just my finances. But also, probably more importantly, my mental health. (And trying to be off the anti-depressants doesn’t help either, I don’t suppose.)

So I recognized this.

F1 Help key on the keyboard

And then this morning, I had another epiphany. (I’ve had several of those lately that just hit hard and true.)

How do I spend it?

This morning I met with one of my solo clients (not related to my full time contract job) and delivered a new website. He was thrilled. I do good work exceptionally fast in this case. And he paid me.

Don’t get me wrong, I knew I was going to be paid. And I knew it was going to be soon.

But I hadn’t put this money in my forecast because it was an unexpected job and I just did it over the weekend. An extra $500, of course, I’ll say yes. Especially when it’s something I enjoy doing and it doesn’t require any human interaction. (Yes, that statement is a reflection of some issues too, I know.)

Anyways, my epiphany was this. I didn’t just accept the payment and get started with my real day, my real job. I immediately started thinking of how to use it. How to spend it.

I wrote recently about my biggest failures over the last 7 years. And saving or rather failing to save is top of that list.

So why don’t I just recognize that and do better. Start saving everything.

I’ve got to do better. I’ve got to be better.

Making Changes

You all have been advising me to seeking counseling for a while. I think I’m there.

The first step to a solution is recognizing the problem. I am the problem.

PS – I’ve started the transfer from Venmo with this new income. And it’s going right into savings. Baby steps.