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November Budget Update

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Hi all! I hope you’re doing well! November seemed to fly by faster than most. I swear I was just typing up my October Budget Update the other day….and somehow a full month has flown by! I guess that’s how it works, especially around the holidays!

As a quick reminder, we live on last month’s income, so for the month of November we had a total of $5855 to budget and appropriate to various categories. Here’s how things worked out…

November budget (planned & actual spent):

PlacePlanned BudgetActual Spent
Rent10551055
Electricity170168
Water6056
Natural gas2028
Sprint (2 lines)115114
Cable/Internet100100
Car Insurance5655
Health Insurance350350
Trash3535
Debt14981498
Miscellaneous300867
Groceries400419
Baby Purchases11001180
Gasoline10075
Saving for Irregular Expenses495495
Total Budgeted58546495

 

As a reminder, miscellaneous is broken down into 4 categories:

  • Entertainment: budgeted = $20; spent = $26
  • Eating Out: budgeted = $100; spent = $129
  • Personal Maintenance: budgeted = $30; spent = $5
  • Other: budgeted = $150; spent = $707

Side note: In January I’m going to do a big, formal assessment of my monthly spending all year and re-do my budget/categories a bit. Right now I have miscellaneous broken into these four sub-categories but starting in January I’m going to simply give each of these categories its own line item instead of lumping them together and itemizing separately. It’s so weird, I don’t even know why I did this to begin with!?

I think this is the very first time since I started blogging that I went over in the entertainment category (I went to a movie with a friend, which cost $12 and tipped me over in this category). Obviously the biggest overage is in the “other” category. I don’t feel comfortable divulging exact details regarding the monetary settlement we came to with our landlord (for damages from the Great Flood of 2014), so I’m purposely going to leave out exact numbers here. I will, however, say that the overage is due to a combination of these three things: (1) iphone screen repair, (2) costs associated with the Great Flood, and (3) truck repair. Note that I was, indeed, able to get my phone screen fixed (rather than having to buy a whole new phone – whew!!), and a portion of the truck repair was paid for out of our vehicle maintenance savings account (we didn’t have enough to cover the full repair, so the deficit came from this category).

I also went a little over in our natural gas bill and in our grocery line-item. Nothing too bad. But I was over by a full $80 in the baby purchases category (which includes the cost of preschool, pull ups/diapers, and any purchases that are toddler-specific). Honestly, I generally budget $1200 in this category so I don’t know why I thought I could drop it down to $1100 and not go over. That was unrealistic and I’m bumping it back up to $1200 for next month.

We had a total of $5855, but spent a total of $6495. This leaves us with a deficit of $640.

Ouch!

We’ve had other rough months in the past but this is, by far, the worst since I started blogging. I think I was only over budget one other month, and it was only by about $20. Here we stand this month, over by nearly a grand (I exaggerate, but we’re still over by a lot!) Again – thank goodness for our emergency fund! I think I’m actually going to write a full blog post dedicated to the EF sometime soon because I haven’t talked much about it since I first started blogging.

At any rate, this month we learned some tough lessons. Lessons in preparedness and in the amount of funds we need to have liquid for future “Murphy’s Law” incidents. I’m going to hold off on changing anything at this time (e.g., altering savings for car repairs), but this will be something I look closely at in December and January as I plan and budget for the new year.

 

How did you do with your November spending?

Black Friday + Husband Helping Fail

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Hi all! Any Black Friday shoppers out there? I don’t know how the frugal living/getting out of debt folks of the world feel about Black Friday. In past years I always saw it as more of an ‘adult’ thing (i.e., getting items you want for cheaper than usual). But now that I’m a parent I’ve started really noticing how many parents rely on Black Friday shopping in order to afford their kids’ Christmas presents. We did not do any Black Friday shopping this year (in fact, I have never ever done a Black Friday in my life), but I do think that if gifts are budgeted for and planned in advance (so there is cash available), Black Friday may not be so bad. I still don’t know how I feel about fighting the crowds, but it may be something I consider in future years in order to get the girl’s gifts for a good deal.

I hope you all had a great Thanksgiving yesterday and ate tons of yummy food!

Our day ended up being pretty packed!

My Dad’s flight was delayed arriving in Tucson so he didn’t end up making it to the house until 1am on Wednesday night/Thursday morning. I was planning a noon Thanksgiving lunch so we could nap afterward (the girls go down for naps at 1pm), so I was definitely tired when I had to be up and prepping food in the kitchen by 7am on Thursday morning. Ugh, can you say coffee?

But it was so nice to be able to fully focus in the kitchen while Dad + Grandpa spent all morning chasing the girls around and playing. They don’t see their Grandpa (my Dad) too often – maybe 2-3 times a year – so it was fun to hear their laughs as he chased them around.

I cooked non-stop from 7am – 12:30pm, then we feasted!! Then napped. Then woke up (before any of us were ready) to head over to our friends’ house for dessert. We ended up being there a few hours and had to rush back to our house with supper hungry/grumpy babies for a dinner round 2 of Thanksgiving food. I’d invited a couple friends over to share Thanksgiving lunch with us but the wife was working (she’s a nurse), so they came over for dinner leftovers instead. They stayed right up until the girls’ bedtime and by 8:30pm (toddler bed time) we were all ready to crash!!!

Only, we didn’t go to sleep yet (looking back, I wish we had!)

Husband decided to try to help me replace my phone screen. Remember when I broke my iPhone screen at the beginning of the month (again)? I bought a $15 screen replacement kit from ebay but haven’t done anything with it since it arrived. I’ve been a little nervous to do it after watching some youtube videos and seeing how difficult it looked.

Welllllll (you can see where this is going….) hubs finally opened up the packaging (I hadn’t even opened the replacement parts box yet) and watched some youtube videos. Then he dove right in. And by “dove in,” I mean he removed my screen and got all up in my phone. Only….it didn’t work. He worked diligently on it for nearly 2 hours, watching multiple videos and trying to trouble shoot again and again. Eventually I went to sleep. When I woke up this morning I discovered my phone…with its old broken/cracked screen on it….and now the touch-sreen doesn’t work either. Yup. So it went from cracked screen, but still useable, to absolutely useless. For any unfamiliar with an iPhone screen, if the touchscreen doesn’t work then the phone is completely unusable. I can’t answer calls, send texts, etc etc etc. Sooooo, yeah. I got online (on my computer since I obviously can’t do it on my phone) and scheduled an appointment for this evening at the Apple Store to have my phone worked on. In the meantime, no phone.

The most worrisome part (and I’m trying to block this from my mind and simply hope this isn’t the case)….is that my phone could be seriously broken. As in…needing replacement (not just simple repair). Deep breaths. I’m not sure what I’ll do if it comes to that. We can NOT afford a new iPhone right now (how much are they anyway….like $500??? more???) Like I said…trying not to worry until I know the full scope of the damage. Crossing my fingers for just a simple screen repair and I’ll be on my way.

I’ll let you know what happens. Can you all just cross your fingers for me and send some positive thoughts my way??

Do you do Black Friday shopping? Are you an in-person or online shopper? What did you do for Thanksgiving??