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Responsible Pet Ownership

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Let me tell you a little story about our dog, Rocky.

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Rocky is an incredible dog. Well-behaved, intelligent, and loyal. One of the best.

But when he was a puppy he was T.E.R.R.I.B.L.E.

 

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I distinctly remember at least 2 separate instances when I was this.close to taking him back to the pound (he was a rescue dog).

He got into everything! He had an insane amount of energy and regardless of how many walks, trips to the dog park, and hours spent playing fetch, he could never get it all out. He’d come inside and just destroy everything!

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As a puppy he did all of the following things: (1) ate a hole through a wood door large enough to walk through, (2) ate an entire leather cushion from a couch, (3) ate through chicken wire, (3) ate a friend’s hat, sunglasses, and shoes as the friend was sleeping on our couch.

This just scratches the surface. He was destructive. And he ate everything.

So one day we’re at home and Rocky starts freaking out. He starts running in circles around our living room at lightening-speed. Then he stops, starts staggering side-to-side like he’s drunk and about to fall down, then he goes right back to running (repeating the run-stagger cycle over and over).

Hubs (boyfriend at the time – this was 10 years ago) and I watched in shock of what was going on. Even for our high-energy Rocky boy, this was crazy behavior. Something was wrong.

At one of the staggering intervals, husband grabbed Rocky and scooped him up in his arms. We ran to the car and drove as fast as we could to the vet clinic just up the road. This was not our usual vet, but we had just moved and this was the closest vet to our new place. We knew we needed help fast.

Once there the vet got to work right away. She pumped his stomach, but didn’t find anything too unusual (I say “too unusual” because she did find some t-shirt material and padding from our patio furniture – true story – but those items would not have caused his behavior). The vet, obviously an animal lover, was not kind to us. She basically accused us of having drugs lying around that he surely must have ingested. Absolutely not! We were not drug-doing type of people!

An overnight stay and several hundred dollars later, we were able to bring Rocky home. Never figured out what was wrong, but he ended up being okay.

Fast forward 2 weeks. We realized what Rocky must have gotten into.

I was in college at the time and it was finals week. I’d been having a lot of anxiety and my relative-to-remain-nameless (since I’m describing a felony and all) gave me a couple of Xanax pills. Obviously not prescribed to me. But my relative thought it would help me relax enough to do well on my exams (I had bad test anxiety at the time). I never did end up taking the pills. They were wadded up in a paper napkin and had been thrown on a kitchen counter. Eventually I forgot about them all together. Then the napkin disappeared (aka: Rocky got ahold of it), and I never even thought twice about it. It is not a usual thing for us to have drugs (prescription or illegal) lying around so it never even crossed my mind.

Apparently the vet was right. *cringe*

I tell this story to say that, since this time, being a responsible pet owner has been of the utmost importance to me. I’d thought we were responsible pet owners at that time, too, but obviously we hadn’t shielded our eat-everything puppy from the dangers of some prescription pills that were lying casually on the kitchen counter.

And above the ramifications for the pets, themselves, responsible pet ownership pays off financially. Being responsible in this situation (i.e., putting the pills away in a safe place) would have prevented the hundreds of dollars we spent on emergency vet bills that day, not to mention the stress and heartache of thinking we were losing our beloved dog.

Pets can be expensive! But if you’re going to be a pet owner, being a responsible one is important.

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Have you had any scary pet crises? How much did the ordeal cost you?

Have you owned a rambunctious pet before? Our dog is THE BEST now, but those first 2 years of his life were pretty rough! ; )

What Millionaires DON’T Do

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Happy Friday, all! Anyone have any fun weekend plans? It’s been cold and drizzly/rainy for days here (very unusual in Tucson), so we’ve been stuck mostly indoors, but the sun has finally returned so I’m hoping to get some good park-time in with the girls and/or long walks in the stroller (if they kiddos will oblige).

In the meantime, let’s talk about this book:  The Millionaire Next Door, by Thomas Stanley.

This book has been talked about a LOT here at BAD. Beks first mentioned it back in September 2010 (see here), and Adam had suggested it to me when I first started blogging (I thought he may have written about it too, and he may have, but I couldn’t find a specific post to link to). So I read it back when I first started blogging – about March or April of last year – and thought it was fabulous, but hadn’t given it much thought recently.

Then my sister (who does not even follow this blog, by the way), posted a link to this article on Facebook by March Chernoff:  20 things the millionaire next door does NOT do, and I was reminded about how great the book was. If you’ve never read the book (or even if you have), I found the article to be great because it neatly summarizes 20 of the top things that the book discusses in much more detail (by the way, this is not mere conjecture – the book was written after conducting multiple interviews and focus groups with the mega-wealty).

I don’t know why, but the item that jumped out at me today was #3. Millionaires do NOT measure success by time spent on something; instead, they measure success by the quality of the work. I’ve always been a pretty efficient worker. So something that takes the average person 5 hours to complete may only take me 90 minutes (yes, of course there are exceptions). But I thought it was a nice thought, especially as so many corporate workplaces basically judge you based on the amount of time you are sitting at your desk. Even in academia I’ve seen this to be true. It’s not like an official measure used to discuss promotion or tenure, but people NOTICE if you are not in the office. But millionaires? Not so much. They judge success based on the actual output; the quality of what has been done. If it took 3 hour or 13 hours doesn’t matter as much as measuring the quality of the final product.

Just wanted to throw that out there.

I’m spending today writing up my interview presentations. I still have over a week until my interview (it’s on Monday the 26th), but I realized that time is going to go FAST, as Monday is MLK Day (no preschool), and Wednesday I have my hair cut/color appointment (which generally takes a good chunk of time), so with my kids only in preschool MWF, we’re really only looking at 2 full work days (today and next Friday) until my interview! Eeek! Wish me luck on the preparations!!!

Have you read The Millionaire Next Door? What did you think about it? Did you check out the Chernoff article? What jumped out at you as being interesting??