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Taxes, Taxes, Taxes!

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2018 was a great year for my husband’s business. We landed some large jobs and it was a banner year. We paid some taxes throughout 2018 but it wasn’t enough, and we were hit with a more than $5,000 tax bill early last year. If you’ve ever been hit by a significant tax bill, you know those are followed by quarterly estimated payments to proactively pay for the following year. Your scrambling to come up with enough cash to pay the tax man then scrambling every quarter for the next year.

Entrepreneurship is awesome, until tax time.

2019 was not a good year for my husband’s company. We started turning away business midway through the year in preparation for moving it to light part-time work on weekends. Yet, each quarter, we wrote pre-payment checks to the IRS.

I hoped for a nice refund this year after all those estimated payments we made throughout 2019 but if you’ve lived in California longer than a minute, you know the taxes here are insane. There were years I would get a nice refund on the federal side and still must pay the great state of California.

We met with our tax guy last week. I think the poor guy sees me coming a mile away… or he sees the raincloud I’ve been carrying since last year.

My raincloud is quite huge at this point.

We sat through the hour and a half appointment. I was literally shaking. My husband’s truck decided to take a turn for the worse and the mechanic still had it two days later. The day before, my dentist discovered a problem with my crown and it needed replacement ASAP. And next Saturday is the registration for summer camp for the kids. We completely forgot to budget for it. A huge tax bill, a huge car repair bill, and a huge dental bill would hit my emergency fund hard. Forget summer camp. Kids aren’t going this year.

After a final few clicks, he looked at me and smiled. ‘Ready?’ he asked.

‘Hit me with it.’ I said unsmiling.

‘Your REFUND this year will be $6,000. Yes, it’s a refund.’ he laughed.

Oh. Thank. The. Lord.

Between the truck repair, estimated dental bill, and summer camp for the kids, we’ll have about $4,000 left. We’re keeping it as a buffer fund for now so we can continue to keep our hands off the emergency fund. We’ve discovered that things hit harder when we are living on a single income. When we both worked, we could respond better to unexpected expenses. Now that our budget is smaller, we need to work much harder to stay in bounds. We were good before, but we’ve had to turn into magicians the last few months. Like anything new, we just need time to adjust.

California didn’t win this year!! Hoping tax time has been kind to you as well!

The Cost of Prom

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Princess heads to her very first prom at the end of this month. She went prom dress shopping with some of her girlfriends this past week during her Winter Break. She took her credit card. (The three oldest kids are all authorized users are on my one credit card that was paid off some time ago.)

In my head, I had decided I was comfortable with spending up to $200 on a prom dress. But I didn’t mention a budget to her, just told her to send me pictures and call me when she found something she loved and we would discuss.

The Prom Dress Shopping Expedition

Hours went by…no pictures, no calls. I knew she was fine, I can track where she is via our phones. But it was silent. And I know from the last couple of times when I’ve dress shopped that 1) EVERYTHING looks good on her and 2) she tries on lots of dresses. But still silence…

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I finally called her and told her to call me if she found something as I was not feeling good and was going to bed. And a text would not wake me.

At that point she told me she had found something she loved but it was $340 so she didn’t even bother to ask…

I was both proud and sad at the same time. Proud that she is naturally frugal and considerate. But sad that I couldn’t even consider buying a $340 dress for her. I got over it quickly and headed to bed. They were going to another store.

All of her friends, I think there were 3 or 4 of them together, had already purchased dresses.

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Sometime later she called. She didn’t have a picture but she found a dress at Ross…the dressing rooms were already closed, but she had her friends surround her in the store and slipped the dress on. She loved it! Could she buy it?

I was groggy and sleepy and just said yes. I trusted her and didn’t really have the capacity to think about it.

The Cost of Her Prom Dress

The next morning I woke up to find a charge for $32.77 on my credit card from Ross. Guys, my daughter bought a beautiful prom dress for $32.77!!! She won’t let me share pictures of it anywhere yet, maybe after prom.

But not only does she love the dress but she is so proud of herself for continuing to look. And does not mind at all that her friends all spent upwards of $200+ on her dresses. She’s going to wear the same nude heels we bought for winter formal. (We had talked about that when I bought them.) And since she got such a good deal on her dress, I’ve decided to pay to get her hair done.

(I did see a picture of the $340 dress and it was beautiful. And a completely different style than the dress she purchased. But when I think of what will most likely be a one time wear, I couldn’t be more proud of my girl! She definitely has her priorities right!)

Costs for attending prom…

I did just receive an email from her school about the costs of attending prom. It came as a very pleasant surprise.

  1. All juniors and seniors attend the dinner and dance for free. Transportation is provided from and back to the school and all students are HIGHLY encouraged to use it.
  2. Juniors and seniors may invite a sophomore or non-school attending guest as their “date” for $100. Obviously, if they go with another junior or senior from the school, there is no charge.
  3. Corsages are ordered through the school…$30 and the boys boutonnieres are $15. (optional)
  4. Picture packages are available, and I will probably purchase a small package. (optional)

Evidently the location they hold the dinner and dance is absolutely gorgeous…up in the mountains and very well done. All in all, I am very pleased and pleasantly surprised at the cost, or lack thereof. How does this plan compare to the prom in your area?