Hey y’all! I want to start a short guest blogger series, so I invited a couple friends and family members to share their perspective on debt and budget issues.
As I mentioned in one of our very first posts, our friends and family are all over the map as far as income, debt, and attitudes towards money. Each influences me in their own way, each has their unique perspective and way of dealing with money. I lean on them to teach me and counsel me when I want to stick my head in the sand. *Side note here, did anyone see New Girl? Nick has a box where he puts all the things he never wants to deal with (mostly bills). Another side note, googling this episode brought me to this dangerous article: http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/americans-selling-hair-kidneys-eggs-financial-woes-report-article-1.1486316
Without further side notes, here’s our first guest, my dad, Mickey. He teaches high school drafting, does architectural work, referees basketball, and owns an extra summer lake home they rent out for additional income. He’s a pretty busy guy! Amazingly, he’s always made time for my sister and I and now all the grand kids.
And here’s what he had to say:
I have a love-hate relationship with our money. I love the fact that it brings me the opportunity to share, give, and enjoy material things, but I hate the struggle and confinement that comes from having to earn money. This struggle is more complicated as I approach retirement, I realize that our lifestyle has to change and that we must now live a life of conservative spending or I am obligated to continue to work on a year to year basis. As of today, the joy that I receive from the pleasures of money far outweighs the hardships of teaching 100 high school kids everyday. So for now, it is all good: I love my job, earn a good salary, enjoy spending our excess, and feel healthy and productive.
Most of our money that we earn is spent on major purchases. Visiting our children and grandchildren in Texas is a huge priority for us. We travel 4 or 5 times a year from Indiana to Texas by air, rent a car, stay in a rented house, and purchase numerous items for our stay. We chose to be generous during our week long vacation and love blessing our children with luxuries that they normally can’t afford. A $2500 vacation times 4 or 5 can be a huge budgetary expense on an annual basis. For example, this year we chose to fly our children home for a week and it was cheaper for us than to visit Texas again. Our other major expense usually involves something for our lake homes. Roofs, decks, floors, windows, all seem to be a non-ending need for each of our lake homes. This year, our major purchase was to buy a pedal pontoon boat (Paddle Qwest). This pedal pontoon was the best purchase that we have made in years because it allows us to enjoy the beauty of the lake, talk without interruptions (no cell phones), exercise, swim, and makes for a great venue for entertaining friends and family.
We have tried to be a living example for our children of managing our finances responsibly. We have an affordable debt (mortgage only), save a percentage of our income, and resist the urge to borrow money as much as possible. We make it a priority to support our local church, give to those in need, and to be flexible when opporutnities arise unexpectedly.





