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Finding the Tax Problem & More Upcoming Medical Bills

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Medical bills and taxes

In the short time I’ve been writing here on Blogging Away Debt I’ve let everyone take a look at what’s been going on in our hectic lives over the last few years. More recently, we’ve faced medical bills increasing and tax problems. Well, I’ve got an update on both of those things for you today.

Chatting With a Tax Pro

As I mentioned in a recent blog post, we wound up owing quite a bit of money at tax time. I couldn’t figure out why. As discussed in the comments, I’ve made estimated payments throughout the year, etc. The problem, as it turned out, was because of my healthcare marketplace coverage that I had early last year.

The coverage lasted from January through June and covered me and my daughter. My husband didn’t get his job or insurance until April and we held on to my marketplace coverage for an additional two months just in case the new job wasn’t working out (he was hired on as a six-month temp at first).

Doing so put me in hot water when it came to filing taxes for a couple of reasons. First, any time the household income changed, I needed to update it in the marketplace and they’d adjust my coverage. So, when my husband took the job in April, I should have immediately gone in and made those adjustments. I failed to do so.

On top of that, we wound up making too much as a household to qualify for the kind of discount I was getting through the marketplace. So, I had to pay all of the monthly premiums in full (over $1,200 monthly). This was the first time I’d ever used the marketplace, so this has been a huge learning experience. Thankfully, we won’t be in this situation again this year, but with fees, etc. it really did add up!

Now that we have that nailed down, however, I can breathe a little bit and we can start paying off that debt.

Upcoming Medical Bills

A number of people close to me (and a number of you all) suggested that I go back to the doctor and get to the bottom of what’s going on, especially where my heart arrhythmia is concerned. I scheduled an appointment last week to get the ball rolling on that. We adjusted my blood pressure medication again, which seems to be helping with the higher readings I’ve been having.

The doctor also suggested that we do a 48-hour heart monitor test. I’ll be going to the Heart & Vascular Institute to have the monitor installed and then return in two days to have it removed. Hopefully they will catch an arrhythmia or episode during that time so that we can figure out what’s going on.

If they don’t catch anything, the doctor suggested I consider some sort of treatment for anxiety. While I don’t feel like my anxiety is all that bad, I know that stress can be a killer – and I have plenty of it.

There is no telling how much this will cost. Medical bills for last week’s visit will be here soon, I’m sure. We will likely hit our deductible soon though and then everything after that is easy peasy. That said, I’m really just ready to figure out what’s going on and to FEEL WELL. Here’s to hoping!

The Mental Load of Financial Planning

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Mental Load of Financial Management

Recently I’ve seen a lot of videos on my social media feed about the mental load that women often carry. Many women become the household manager almost by default, whether they want to be or not. 

Luckily I enjoy housekeeping, because my partner is pretty bad at cleaning! Back when I worked full-time, the house fell into chaos because I couldn’t keep up with all the chores while running my business. As my partner’s career has grown, I’ve been able to work fewer hours and devote more time to maintaining and running our home, which I feel is a fair arrangement. 

I don’t mind chores and find them pretty relaxing and meditative. But something I do wish I had more help with is financial planning. I haven’t seen many people talk about the mental burden of being responsible for household money management. Because I’m a personal finance writer, the financial planning mainly falls to me. Although I run everything by my partner, I’m definitely the primary decision maker, which can be a bit stressful at times. 

If I make a big financial mistake, it could affect our quality of life or ability to retire. That’s why I find being responsible for our money more stressful than managing our home. Basic chores are pretty hard to mess up, and there aren’t really any consequences when I do. If I burn dinner, we can just heat up a frozen meal or go get a pizza. Bad financial decisions are much harder to rectify. 

Too Many Options

Since I write about personal finance for a living, you’d think it would be easy for me to manage our money. Knowledge is power, right? I actually find financial planning difficult sometimes because I’m familiar with too many different money management strategies.

I almost feel like I have information overload when it comes to finances. I second guess myself and wonder if I’m making the right money moves, or if different strategies would be better. Homemaking is easier for me because I never have to wonder if I’m loading the dishwasher right or mopping correctly. And nothing catastrophic will happen if I do it wrong. 

Because I have to be a money expert at work and at home, it’s hard to switch off and stop thinking about finances. I also dislike being the “bad cop” who has to tell my partner we can’t do or buy something if we want to meet our financial goals. 

Relieving the Mental Load

I’m not sharing this to whine or complain. The mental load of handling finances is something I thought might be relatable. I see many insightful comments from the ladies who read this blog, and I get the feeling at least some of you are primarily responsible for your family’s finances too. Discussions about mental load usually focus on household chores, caretaking, and appointment setting, so I wanted to shine a light on this aspect of it. 

Who’s primarily responsible for money management in your relationship? Does financial planning stress you out or do you enjoy it? I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic in the comments.

To relieve some of the mental load, I’m trying to redistribute certain financial tasks. For example, I let my partner handle our taxes this year. Although it was nerve-wracking to give up control of something so important, it turned out ok and we got a $600 return. 

We might’ve missed out on some deductions because I didn’t double check anything. But I’m learning that sometimes done is better than perfect, even when it comes to finances.

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