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My Credit Score Has Improved to Excellent

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I’ll be updating my net worth at the end of the month, as I did last month. But I have some good news about my credit score to share before then!

My credit score has been updated

…and it’s now Excellent! It’s 814 with Equifax and 736 with TransUnion. I was sort of expecting that, seeing as my credit utilization ratio dropped dramatically when I took out the loan to pay off my credit cards with much lower interest rate.

 

You can see on this chart it was 560 a little over a year ago. I don’t think I’ve mentioned yet that I filed a Consumer Proposal in 2013. A Consumer Proposal is an alternative to bankruptcy, similar to a Chapter 13 Wager Earner Plan in the US. You receive an R9 credit rating across the board and your credit is ruined. This was a HORRIBLE financial choice for me. I only had 9k in total debt and had never missed a single payment for anything! Insolvency Trustees can be kind of predatory, let me tell you. I’ve met with many financial advisors who were dismayed to learn I was advised to take that route with so little debt. They didn’t even renegotiate the debts for me, which usually happens. The balances were so low they didn’t bother.

How does the Consumer Proposal work?

You have five years to make payments, and during that time, you have no credit. All your ratings are R9, the lowest value, for the duration of the proposal. You can pay it off early, as I did, and then you have a two year period during which the proposal is still visible on your credit report. Mine fell off my credit report early this year. It’s a very serious decision to make, as it’s in the public record and leaves a big scar on your financial life.

My landlord ran a credit report on me in 2013 when I moved to the house I’m in now, and he showed it to me. It actually appears as though you’ve gone bankrupt on the report, which made me sick to my stomach. If anyone ever wants to hear about the process and why it was a terrible decision for me, I’d be happy to write about that.

How did I rebuild?

Capital One was a major help to me. They gave me credit when no one else would. Part of the Consumer Proposal process is taking government-mandated finance classes. One of the last steps towards the end is to open a credit card, and put down money to guarantee it, if need be. I didn’t have to do that. Capital One actually gave me a credit card with a $2000 limit when I had a credit score in the 400s. I don’t know how wise that is for Capital One, but it worked out well for me and I was able to rebuild my credit. Unfortunately, a few years went by and the debt was racked up again! That’s the cycle I am working so hard to avoid this time.

I paid all my bills on time (as I always had!) and paid deposits for my utility bills. I had to pay $200 each in advance for my phone plan and my internet/tv accounts. Over time, my credit slowly crept up. I applied for another credit card in early 2019, and that boosted my score. Once the R9s began falling off, my score really climbed. I bought my car in February of this year, and managed to negotiate very low financing. 1.99%, is obviously not as good as 0% but I didn’t qualify with a credit score in the 600s. Buying the car really helped my credit as well.

The weird thing about credit scores…

I am about to make some decisions that are indisputably good for me financially. I am going to close a credit card and my $12/month bank account. I’ve applied for a free checking account with Simplii Financial. There’s no universe in which someone could argue getting rid of a credit card and closing a bank account are a BAD idea…except the credit score universe. Length of credit history matters, so I will probably take a big ding when I do this. But I’ve learned my lesson, and I don’t need an excellent credit rating right now. I’m not applying for anything. I need to make the best decisions for me and set myself up for success. The last thing I want is a credit card balance.

All in all, credit scores are pretty arbitrary and silly – except when you need to apply for a mortgage or loan! Ugh.

Lastly, in my previous post, I mentioned telling you about appliance thrifting. Scratch that! I took apart my microwave and fixed it. Thanks, YouTube! I also realized my oven was wonky because one of the heating element wires had fallen into the insulation. I took the back off and fished it out and reconnected it. Feelin’ handy, thankyouverymuch.

 

Update on my Anxiety – Opportunities for Growth

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Well guys, that sick day was just what the doctor ordered. I should remember anxiety is also a sickness, and take that time in the future.

Thank you for your kind comments. I haven’t felt like myself lately, and yesterday I took the day to listen to my body and heart. I slept in a bit, and I made my way to the doctor. That was scary. My doctor’s office is conveniently open 7 days a week, but my doctor keeps strange hours and I have only met him once. I normally see whoever is working at the time. I lucked out because my family doctor was working. He’s slightly younger and from another part of the world, which didn’t deter me, but made me wonder if he was a decent doctor, or if he would judge me for having anxiety. He didn’t.

Just what the doctor ordered

He was kind, and he asked a lot of questions. My ears and sinuses were examined, and they were were completely filled with gunk. He cleaned my ears a bit and told me my driving issue could very well be a combination of inner-ear issues and anxiety. He told me to wait til this cold/flu passes and see how I feel. Then we talked about anxiety, and he asked me when I feel the most anxious. I answered:

  • when checking work email
  • when I have more than one coffee (my heart pounds!)
  • confrontation or perceived confrontation
  • seeing my mom’s parents. I love them so much, but we are diametrically opposed politically and it causes a lot of strife.
  • sometimes driving the last 30 miles to and from my dad’s house (winding, hilly roads with high speed limits and impatient local drivers who like to go very fast)
  • figuring things out with Mike (not much happening here – he works 16 hours a day and I am busy or sleeping during his free time)

He had some practical advice. Kick coffee for a couple weeks and see how it feels. Try driving on the streets around my house, where I am comfortable. Don’t do any of the listed items above before trying to drive. And we chatted about therapy options.

So, what am I doing about my anxiety?

The doc had some practical advice here, too. He referred me to two therapists, one downtown and one near my house. He said to set up intro sessions with both, because personality match is important. When we spoke about the online options, he emphatically endorsed both of the sites I had looked into. He said his wife used BetterHelp in the past for managing work stress, and he had a couple patients who had used Maple.

Essentially, he recommended I talk to a few people and try their services out, and see what helps me the most.

I left, and I looked into my work benefits. We have an Employee Assistance Program at work and I signed up for counselling starting next week over my lunch hour. This appears to be a group of four people (not from my company – from companies who use the same insurance provider) in an anonymous online therapy session. You can be referred to free private counselling from this program, which is the only reason I’m going to attend the online group session.

All in all, I have five options on the go (BetterHelp, Maple, my two referrals from the doc, and my EAP). I’m going to explore them all.

And, I have Rosie and Billy. Sometimes, it’s good to just step outside in the sunshine with my pets and enjoy the moment.

Life is a Highway

Lastly, I want to let you all know I drove my car completely fine today. It was just to get gas and groceries, but it was ok. Maybe it was the sinuses throwing my balance off?? I don’t feel ready for the highway or the winding country roads yet. I’m going to practice some curvy highway sections with a friend on Saturday. I’ve felt a little nervous around concrete medians and high-speed turns for awhile now, so I think I am going to take time to build confidence on the road again, regardless of whatever else is going on.

My next post will have some positive financial updates for you, such as:

  • credit score update
  • some appliance thrifting I was forced to do
  • finally ditching my bank fees!

Thanks for sticking around <3