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Failed Plans – Spring Volleyball Season

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I can’t remember when I wrote about my barter arrangement with Princess select volleyball team from this past spring. Essentially, I took over their website and communications at the beginning of the summer. In exchange, she was to be able to play for free this coming spring – a $1,000 value. Score!

In addition, they agreed to let us create a “satellite” team here locally and play under their organization. This would save the twice or more weekly, 2 hour round trips for her to practice. Again, score!

About a month ago, I began pestering for details, etc. so we could get started here: parent meetings, skills clinics and then tryouts. My goal was to create two teams, a middle school age team (there is no volleyball at the middle school so they get to high school with no experience,) and a high school age team.

Shutting Down

This week, via text message, the director let me know that they decided to shutdown and would no longer be running the volleyball organization. I was in shock and so angry! No notice, no explanation.

I exchange a few text messages with the director, which is the person I did all the original negotiating with, and although kind, she didn’t really care about their commitment to me or the kids here. They are funneling all the local girls into an Upward sports program.

She did reach out to the director of another select volleyball club and he was willing to work with me, but the requirements were not what I needed to make this work in our impoverished area. And the time frame he needed them, just wasn’t feasible for me. Ugh! This week, I had to thank him and turn him down.

Now I have to figure out some way to allow my daughter and the many families I have already spoken with at least continue training for volleyball if I can’t pull something together for actually have competitive teams.

Mulling Over Ideas

I am grateful that I now have complete control over the concept. I can control the costs a bit more. But I have to get the set up right to be able to eventually participate with other select teams. That means we need non-profit status to be able to get sponsors. I will need to work on finding practice spaces, coaches and so on. And somehow do it so that I protect myself liability wise. Yikes!

Have any BAD readers ever had a part in setting up a select volleyball club? What about with a shoestring budget? Or really no budget?

These are my ideas:

  1. Start our own club.
  2. Find a team for Princess to play out (closest ones are close to an hour away.)
  3. Get in touch with local college which does have a volleyball team and see if we can just do some skills clinics with some of their players/coaches.
  4. A combination of 1 & 3. We could use #3 as a fundraising and kind of skills funnel or tryouts and then with #1 maybe hit a couple of tournaments but not a full season in the spring.
  5. Give up completely and just cry.

I am grateful for my administrative and web skills right now. I can handle the administrative side of this with ease. But I definitely need some community resources to pull this off, especially this first year with no money and limited resources in our community.

As much as I want to go with option #5 right now. I think option #4 is the best bet for my daughter and this community. We do not have any competition so I know the kids will be interested, I just have to find a way to manage the costs. I don’t want a $1,000 price tag to keep these kids was this. (And frankly, I can’t afford a $1,000 price tag right now either nor do I want to.)

Any words of wisdom you can offer would be greatly appreciated? Any experience in forming this type of grassroots, starting from scratch organization? I would greatly appreciate all the help I can get.

Hope’s Anticipated Spending – Week of 9/28

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Our house is in chaos these days. Lots of upheaval and change, some expected, some not. But thankfully, I’m still able to keep my eye on the prize of getting out of debt as quickly as possible.

I’ve made some decisions that are going to get me in hot water with BAD readers this week, but I am at peace with them. More on that below.

Here’s our planned spending for our first week of No Spend October!

Anticipated Spending - Week of 9/28

DescriptionAnticipatedActual
Income *after taxes$576
Gas($35)
Volleyball - entrance fees($5)
Princess - camp savings$178
Rent($650)
Camp Payment($178)
Utilities - water, sewer, trash, gas($127)

Total($240)

Note for this Week

  1. We are going bare bones this coming month. No extra on anything. My only debt payment that would have been due this week is the tax debt. But since I’m ahead on it, I do not have to pay it this month.
  2. While this week’s numbers make it looks like I’m upside down, I’m not. I have cushion to cover week’s that I don’t make as much as I spend. And the first of the month is always a high spend one since most of my monthly bills are due then.
  3. Tuesday is Princess last high school game. We are both ready for the season to be over, but she has made some great friends which I believe will last a lifetime!

Homeschooling x2

This week I made the very hard decision to pull Gymnast out of public school. It was not what he or I wanted. And I did not make the decision lightly. There is lots of back story, but the bottom line is that the constant threat of violence and assault wore me down.

He has been physically assaulted on multiple occasions since starting at this school in January. And this past Friday night (not yesterday, the week before) he was ganged up on while attending the Friday night high school game. (His beloved phone was shattered, and he ended up having to spend the rest of the game sitting with police to stay safe. Thank goodness for good friends who got him away safely.)

The school’s response was “we talked to them and told them to cut it out” and “those boys can no longer attend football games.”  But I’m sorry, that’s just not enough. He and I have received threatening messages via social media, and the worry was driving me crazy. And frankly, the stress of it was altering him, and not in a good way.

So for now, I will be homeschooling him. And I feel terrible about it because he LOVES the social aspect of school. But I will tell you, in just the two days since the decision was made, he is “lighter” than he has been all year. I can visibly see the reduction of stress and fear. He is smiling again, he is laughing again and he is playing and joking and wrestling with his siblings again. Seriously.

Financial Implications

I have all the curriculum I need. Thankfully I did not get rid of high school type materials because I thought the kids could use them as resources. He will be eating at home more often (both breakfast and lunch are offered at the middle school for free due to the extreme poverty in this area.) But otherwise, I don’t expect much in the way of finances.

This is NOT a PERMANENT decision. But it is a for now decision. And I’m at peace with it, although hate it for him.