by Hope
Today Jake has officially moved in with his dad, my youngest son, Gymnast. And I have passed off the financial responsibility on to him as well.
Jake moved in with Princess last summer when she got her solo apartment. I insisted on it as a security measure. And frankly, the two boys dogs just were a lot to handle together. All in all it worked out great for everyone.
Princess got some security as she settled in. Gymnast got the rest of the year to get his own place. And I shed some of the responsibility of physical care of another dog.
But I continued to contribute financially to his upkeep. When I bought food, I provided for him. I paid for the annual vet visit. Etc.
Now Gymnast will take on those responsibilities! We are all happy campers about this. Another right of passage for my growing kids completed.
On His Own Insurance
Gymnast made another leap into independence last month. He got his very own car insurance policy. He finished paying his car off in December. We completed the switch in car title while he was in Georgia in January. And then he shopped for insurance.

His monthly premium on the family plan was right at $458 per month. (He has had 3 wrecks since getting his license, including totaling his first car back in 2021.) That made our monthly payment $930 per month. Ouch!
- Wreck #1 – Gymnast totaled his and Princess shared car in Dec, 2021. He should not have survived this wreck, can came out with air bag burns and scratches. God was watching out for him!
- Wreck #2 – Gymnast was run off the road by a man in a rage. While there was a witness to the aggressive driver, no charges were filed so Gymnast was held responsible
I covered his insurance payment for the last quarter of 2024. And he used that time wisely to pay off his car. So proud!
Anyways, he shopped around, found full coverage for right at $800 for 6 months and made the switch last month. I am just so freaking proud of him. (All my kids, really.)
So while he had started covering the cost again in January. It does take some of the mental pressure off me to be on his own policy now.
New Insurance Rate
Beauty got her own policy last fall when she purchased a new car. (She was on the family plan as a driver since she drove my car regularly.) Gymnast moved to his own policy this past month. So it’s just Princess and I. And this month is the end of the 6 month policy. I’ve just gotten our new rate for the next 6 months…
$273 monthly payment. I about fell out of my chair when it came through. I know there are lots of factors with insurance. Princess turns 21 this term. Credit score has greatly improved. Clean driving records.
Grateful! Another step to improving my financial future.

Hope is a resourceful, solutions-driven online business manager with over two decades of experience helping clients streamline operations, manage projects, and grow their businesses through digital marketing and technology.
But life has a way of rewriting your plans.
A year ago, Hope made the decision to move in with her aging parents full time – a season she wouldn’t trade, even as it came with its own financial and emotional weight. Earlier this year, she lost her mother, and is now walking the tender, disorienting path of grief while learning what “forward” looks like from here.
Hope came to the Blogging Away Debt community in 2015 as a single mom raising five foster and adoptive children. She’s written through job changes, financial setbacks, and the bittersweet transition to an empty nest. Her kids are finding their footing in the world now – and so is she.
Rooted in faith and fueled by the same perseverance she’s brought to every hard season, Hope is ready to face her finances with fresh eyes and an honest pen. She believes that clarity, courage, and community can change the trajectory of anyone’s story including her own.
She lives in Austin, TX with her dad, loves adventures with her dog Addie, and is figuring out, one step at a time, what this next chapter is meant to be.


