by Hope
I know that there were lots of opinions on my kids involvement in different activities and the amount of money I spent on them. While much of their activities are bartered there are certainly costs associated with them, and the driving alone is a hefty chunk of my time not to mention gas….but I declare that as I/we get more selective, they do pay off. I have talked alot about my youngest being a competitive gymnast and this past weekend his meet season kicked off. I did good financially…in the past we have driven up, stayed a couple of nights, done some sightseeing…nope, not this year. We drove up and home the day of, and here’s what we got to see.
For the record, I have bartered my skills for his monthly tuition. I do have to pay uniform and meet fees along with the gas to get him to practice three times a week and to out of town meets (all of them are out of town except the one we host in December.) This year the meet fees are right around $400 for the whole season…his dad and I split that and it has already been paid.
He spends 12 hours a week in the gym…and these videos show the results of a little over 2 years of training (not counting his missing the majority of last season due to broken hand.) In my book, it’s so worth it!
Hope is a resourceful and solutions-driven business manager who has spent nearly two decades helping clients streamline their operations and grow their businesses through project management, digital marketing, and tech expertise. Recently transitioning from her role as a single mom of five foster/adoptive children to an empty nester, Hope is navigating the emotional and practical challenges of redefining her life while maintaining her determination to regain financial control and eliminate debt.
Living in a cozy small town in northeast Georgia with her three dogs, Hope cherishes the serenity of the mountains over the bustle of the beach. Though her kids are now finding their footing in the world—pursuing education, careers, and independence—she remains deeply committed to supporting them in this next chapter, even as she faces the bittersweet tug of letting go.
Since joining the Blogging Away Debt community in 2015, Hope has candidly shared her journey of financial ups and downs. Now, with a renewed focus and a clear path ahead, she’s ready to tackle her finances with the same passion and perseverance that she’s brought to her life and career. Through her writing, she continues to inspire others to confront their own financial challenges and strive for a brighter future.
Good Morning – that video is awesome. That you so much for sharing!!! I know you are one proud mom. As for the expenses associated, I think this is an extremely good “investment”. Due to his gymnastic skills, he may one day score a great scholarship – saving a huge chunk of change. And there have been studies showing the benefits to students in being involved in extra-curricular activities…http://dc.cod.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1370&context=essai.
When on a debt payoff, sometimes we try to put a price on everything. With children, that is an impossible task – no price can be put on the investment of their future. Hold you head high Hope – you have it right – you are investing in the lives of your children and the return on that investment is priceless.
Hi Hope,
I admire you for what you make possible for your kids.
Good job!
And I am sure, little Gymnast benefits in a lot of ways from this activity.
Happy Thanksgiving!
wow very talented!
Wow! He is so strong! I think these are expenses that are well worth it. Especially if he really enjoys it. You are setting him up for a lifetime of good habits – commitment, exercise, etc.
What an incredibly talented young chap. You must be so proud Hope xxx