by Hope
I am not a dress up kind of person. If I can’t wear leggings, maybe jeans, I don’t go. I just don’t. It’s a personal choice that I have embraced.
But my daughter’s wedding…and being the Matron of Honor, I had to step it up. Last week, I did a mini fashion show during a family dinner to get some guidance from my family.
Any guesses on what they voted on?
In the end, I sent this picture to both my girls. Their vote was unanimous. In fact, across the board, one was a decided favorite with the second place being varied.
I ended up keeping 3 of the dresses. If I don’t wear one to the wedding, it will get returned, but I will keep the other two.
The Cost
I can tell you that one of these dresses cost as much as the other 5 altogether. Any guess on what the most expensive dress of the set was? I can tell you that it was not the one selected. And frankly, the cost was the primary reason I went hunting for alternates. Two of these dresses are from TikTok shop, three are from Amazon, and one is from a local department store.
The dress that I will most likely wear in the wedding cost me $29. Any guesses?
And thankfully, I get to go barefoot, so no shoes were purchased. I did bring a nicer pair for the reception, but will go barefoot for the wedding itself. Yeah! But I am supposed to wear pearls, thinking that will be a Walmart purchase.
I do know this…if I ever get married again, I will not have a big wedding. Not even a medium wedding. And I will wear whatever I am comfortable in versus a wedding dress. I’d like to say I’ll wear jeans, but I think even I would acquiesce and wear some sort of dress.
Hope is a resourceful and solutions-driven business manager who has spent nearly two decades helping clients streamline their operations and grow their businesses through project management, digital marketing, and tech expertise. Recently transitioning from her role as a single mom of five foster/adoptive children to an empty nester, Hope is navigating the emotional and practical challenges of redefining her life while maintaining her determination to regain financial control and eliminate debt.
Living in a cozy small town in northeast Georgia with her three dogs, Hope cherishes the serenity of the mountains over the bustle of the beach. Though her kids are now finding their footing in the world—pursuing education, careers, and independence—she remains deeply committed to supporting them in this next chapter, even as she faces the bittersweet tug of letting go.
Since joining the Blogging Away Debt community in 2015, Hope has candidly shared her journey of financial ups and downs. Now, with a renewed focus and a clear path ahead, she’s ready to tackle her finances with the same passion and perseverance that she’s brought to her life and career. Through her writing, she continues to inspire others to confront their own financial challenges and strive for a brighter future.
“I’m not a dress up person…if o can’t wear leggings or jeans I don’t go”
“I’m keeping 2(or 3) dresses”
Do you not see how these are inconsistent? If you won’t wear it, why are you keeping it?
Agreed. How, when you, at 50, have a tiny amount in your 401k, justify keeping three dresses that you just said you won’t wear?
The only possible sensible explanation is that the dresses can’t be returned or are more expensive to return than they cost. In which case…..shouldn’t have bought them at all.
The blue floral is very flattering.
I don’t know about the prices but I like the top right more fitted one. It will be interesting to see which you have chosen. I’m curious about the barefoot part, is it a beach wedding?
I personally like the white and blue one or the one above it. Maybe they chose the bottom left with the slit?
top right or floral dress. all are lovely but i especially like those two. very pretty
Oh I want to vote! 🙂 My favorites are the top right and bottom left. My guess for the most expensive is the top left (larger photo) – I think the appliqué could have been expensive if it was hand sewn locally.
The white and blue dress looks great on you. I hope that is one you are keeping (unless it was the super expensive one, and then do NOT keep it).
Gotta be the blue and white floral!