by Claire
Maybe some of you saw the exchange between me and Tiffany in the comments after last night’s post on the housing post. She asked about the promotion and I shared that we were told late yesterday that the boss and his boss were coming in for a lunch meeting. This was somewhat unexpected although my boss had said it might happen when we spoke about 2 weeks ago but then when he came by in person last week, there was a suggestion that the entire thing was put off until September 1.
Even as I prepare to type this out I am thinking to myself, “this sounds made up!” I promise, this is my life and thankfully I have A) a total and complete faith in God’s plan and B) a sense of humor. We knew we were having a lunch meeting and we all noticed that the HR manager was included on the calendar invite. Then this morning the bosses met with my main competitor (let’s call him Sam) behind closed doors for about an hour and twenty minutes. Then we had our lunch meeting and nothing was mentioned. Not a word about the position. Nada. Then they packed up and left the office.
I can’t even think of a word that can convey how silly I am finding this entire thing at this point! One thought is an offer was made to Sam and he has the weekend to discuss and accept next week. Then the two candidates (myself and another in the office) that were not selected will be told. I’m somehow very okay with that scenario–I just want closure! If Sam was selected, I am able to see the benefits to me personally. I don’t think the major issues in the office will be addressed but I can also see very clearly how those issues don’t directly impact my work experience. If I start thinking about the multiple people who ARE impacted by the decision, I can see how it is not the best decision. Does that make sense? If viewed just from my perspective and my experience, not a huge impact. If viewed globally, I see that we aren’t going to be in a very good spot.
There are a few other scenarios that may play out but I am very tired of guessing, surmising, speculating and wondering. So, for this weekend, I am assuming I did not get the job. I am ready to face that reality with grace and my dignity intact! But, I won’t lie either. I can’t imagine it taking near 90 minutes to convey this job offer. We know what this job is about and I’ve got a voice in the back of my head on this that another opportunithy was offered to him instead of the original position. There’s a vacancy in an area he specializes in and I’m curious if he was tapped for that role. This is not at all to say that I’m assuming the job is mine because I am not.
I do feel okay about the whole thing. I’m blessed to have a firm hold on reality in that it all happens for a reason and I am exactly where I am supposed to be on this day. The situation is out of my control. I am thankful for having opportunities and a very good job–in this economy, that cannot be taken for granted.
Born and raised in Texas. I’ve at least driven through every state in the US courtesy of a roadtrip loving Dad.
I’m single with two children and a good parenting relationship with their father.
I am a “life is just half full of funny” kinda gal. Humor is my saving grace and I am thankful for it every single day. I have a strong Catholic faith and am thankful for that foundation.
I read a lot for a living but still enjoy a good book. I love biographies but in recent years have found the need for fun fictional books–sadly, for a long time I just didn’t enjoy fiction!
I love live theatre of any kind–from local productions to Broadway.
I love to scrapbook and pride myself in my kids’ albums.
I love being a mom but also love my career. I’m blessed to have found a balance allowing me to be at everything my kids need and want me to be at–while also having a career.
Favorite Quotes: Well behaved women rarely make history.
Behold the turtle. He makes progress only when he sticks his neck out. -James Bryant Conant
What??? Nooooooooooo!
Your last paragraph is on the money. I know how just the uncertainty can eat you up, but your attitude of thankful grace, rather than petulant entitlement is the best.
When you look back at these events in the rear view mirror, you will find that every single step was for the best.
Have a peaceful weekend! 🙂
I’ve found reciting everything you’re thankful for
every morning will surprise you! I mean EVERYTHING.
clothes,stereos,cars ,kids,pets,sposes,relatives,friends,health,sports,
etc. What I’ve found is we are programed to take most of our blessing for granite. Like do you notices how nice his benley is when it comes to pice him up. I mean REALLY notices!
God”s timing is perfect. No job situation is perfect. God created work in part to give us purpose and develop our character. Continue to work hard and be thankful. There are billions of people in this world who live on less than two dollars per day. We have so much for which to be thankful.
You continue to inspire by your persistent progress despite setbacks. Your attitude toward spending has changed which is what will help you toward debt freedom.
Best wishes!
Almost forgot – check out Psalm 76:6&7
Like you I would assume that Sam has got it if he wants it but it is also possible he has been offered another vacancy
Working for your company would make me nuts. I’m just saying. 🙂 I hope you find out something definite, one way or the other, this week.
Hi Shannon–I’m pretty much going batty. I don’t think I will hear anything this week but anticipate getting the letdown talk next week. Sucks but I am ready for the waiting game to be over.