by Hope
History Buff has taken another step towards adulting…he has just accepted and begun a full time job. He is super excited. And I am excited for him.
Last night he asked me to sit down with him and make some decisions on the benefit package. Boy, was that a throwback. Although I had a brief stint back in the corporate world a couple of years ago, it has been over a decade since I had to deal with those types of decisions and paperwork.
But we got him signed up for health insurance and he opted to begin contributing to the 401K at the maximum matched amount which is 5%. I am really excited and proud of him.

We talked through all the health options and I defined all the terms and benefits to him…in network, out of network, annual deductible, maximum out of pocket and of course co-pays.
Then we talked about what a 401K is and why it’s important. We talked about corporate matching, vesting periods and risk tolerance. He’s got a lot more to learn but he’s off to a solid start and I am confident he is aware of what he committed to for now.
Rude Awakening to Come
But I also know that in adding those expenses, his “raise” to full time pay is not going to be as much as he expects. And I tried to explain that gently to him.
He will be paying $57 per pay period for his individual health insurance and contributing $44 per pay period to the 401K. That is essentially, all the money he will be earning as a full time employee versus the part time 25-30 hours he has been doing. I fear he is in for a very rude awakening!
He didn’t get an hourly bump in pay, just access to the full time benefits and more working hours. But it is a big step for him. And one he needs as he continues to waver on what he wants to do long term…
Here’s to raising more financially aware and responsibly adults than I ever way!

Hope is a resourceful and solutions-driven business manager who has spent nearly two decades helping clients streamline their operations and grow their businesses through project management, digital marketing, and tech expertise. Recently transitioning from her role as a single mom of five foster/adoptive children to an empty nester, Hope is navigating the emotional and practical challenges of redefining her life while maintaining her determination to regain financial control and eliminate debt.
Living in a cozy small town in northeast Georgia with her three dogs, Hope cherishes the serenity of the mountains over the bustle of the beach. Though her kids are now finding their footing in the world—pursuing education, careers, and independence—she remains deeply committed to supporting them in this next chapter, even as she faces the bittersweet tug of letting go.
Since joining the Blogging Away Debt community in 2015, Hope has candidly shared her journey of financial ups and downs. Now, with a renewed focus and a clear path ahead, she’s ready to tackle her finances with the same passion and perseverance that she’s brought to her life and career. Through her writing, she continues to inspire others to confront their own financial challenges and strive for a brighter future.


