by Hope
The message I heard from your comments on my post about changing direction to focus on savings was – Not a good idea.
Sounds like staying the course to focus on paying off consumer debt should continue to be priority one. While balancing in some savings. What I’m doing now.
Then pivoting to saving over the student loan debt. Then returning to student loans.
Am I reading the room correctly in this?
Big Rock Priorities
- Pay off the remaining $8,600 in credit card debt
- Pay off the $2,600 personal loan
- Save a solid 6 months of daily living = $36,000
- Pay off student loans
Sit Still
I know that selling my house is not a good financial move. I know that.
And as commentors pointed out, it is definitely a decision driven my emotions. Versus smart and logical reasoning.
So for now, I’m going to sit on that decision for a bit longer. It’s still rolling around in my head. But the extended trip and staying with my daughter for a week during her surgery, definitely gave me a different perspective. And really, it’s not something I have to decide now or put a timeline on.

Having some stability and figuring out why that’s so hard for me is probably a better priority now. I had a good, heart centered talk about just this with my daughter this weekend. Hearing her perspective was eye-opening.
Now I will go forth and devise plans to pay off debt. A plan that is achievable. And not a game. One that can be tracked and measured. That doesn’t rely on me earning extra money from side gigs or selling anything. A real, honest to goodness plan.

Hope is a resourceful, solutions-driven online business manager with over two decades of experience helping clients streamline operations, manage projects, and grow their businesses through digital marketing and technology.
But life has a way of rewriting your plans.
A year ago, Hope made the decision to move in with her aging parents full time – a season she wouldn’t trade, even as it came with its own financial and emotional weight. Earlier this year, she lost her mother, and is now walking the tender, disorienting path of grief while learning what “forward” looks like from here.
Hope came to the Blogging Away Debt community in 2015 as a single mom raising five foster and adoptive children. She’s written through job changes, financial setbacks, and the bittersweet transition to an empty nest. Her kids are finding their footing in the world now – and so is she.
Rooted in faith and fueled by the same perseverance she’s brought to every hard season, Hope is ready to face her finances with fresh eyes and an honest pen. She believes that clarity, courage, and community can change the trajectory of anyone’s story including her own.
She lives in Austin, TX with her dad, loves adventures with her dog Addie, and is figuring out, one step at a time, what this next chapter is meant to be.



