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Dec 19, 2022    |       12 comments

2023 Financial Goals

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As I’m looking back at 2022 and planning for 2023, I’ve been thinking a lot about financial goals. There are 4 main categories of financial goals that I want to breakdown and discuss below: short-term savings (money in a high yield savings account), investments (money in longer term savings and IRAs), Debt (gotta get outta debt ASAP!), and travel (because….balance). Read more about my thoughts and feelings below and let me know what you think!

 

Short-Term Savings

  • Emergency Fund – current balance is $4757. My goal is to save $300/month until I hit $5k (will take 1 month).
  • Car Repair Fund – current balance is $2858. My goal is to get to $3,000 and then pause any additional savings and only replenish as needed. This money is for larger car repairs, new tires, etc. I plan to save $150/month until I get to $3k (it will only take 1 month to do so).
  • Semi-Annual Fees – current balance is $816. This is a $1,000 revolving account (currently slightly lower than $1,000 due to recent payment). This is for semi-annual/irregular bills, like car insurance (paid every 6 months), life insurance premiums (paid annually), HOA fees (paid quarterly), car registration (paid once every 3 years), etc. I plan to save $250/month until this is recouped at $1k (it will take 2 months to do this, because there’s a planned insurance bill being paid in January, and it is paid from these funds before excess is deposited into savings)
  • Student Loan Savings – current balance is $1481 (it had been higher, but I’d used some of these funds to purchase a computer when my old one died back in August). My goal is to get up to $4702 to pay the lowest balance student loan in full, but this is also a lower priority savings item, so some months it gets cut from the budget if there isn’t room. My tentative goal is to plan for $150/month in savings, and more when I am able.

 

A note on my emergency fund –

Unfortunately, I had to dive deep into the emergency fund a few months ago, when I landed back in court with my ex over child custody issues. It has been a stressful few months, as I had not anticipated this turn of events and legal proceedings of any kind are costly, time-consuming, and stressful. I was so grateful I had an established emergency fund. Most of this fund was paid out back in August and I’ve slowly been re-building this fund. While there’s always the possibility I’m going to have to dive back into the EF to fund continued litigation, I’m very hopeful that we are nearing resolution on the matter and this money can sit undisturbed for the foreseeable future. But because of the somewhat unpredictability of the future, this EF is non-negotiable and I rank it highest in my personal rank-order of budgeting when it comes to savings versus extra debt payments. I need this EF to be fully funded at $5k to feel comfortable.

 

Investments

  • Traditional Retirement – 7% of my paycheck is invested into a retirement account. I get a 7% match, so it’s a total investment of 14% of my salary. I will increase this once I’m debt-free, but plan to keep as-is for now.
  • Husband’s Retirement – 15% of my husband’s salary is invested into a retirement account.
  • 403(b) – In addition to my 7% investment, above, I also invest $50/paycheck to an optional 403(b) account. I’d love to increase the amount invested here after becoming debt-free, but plan to keep as-is for now.
  • Health Savings Account – I’ve pledged $5500 here. We’re still newer to HSAs, as I used to rely on FSAs for health care. Because we’re still new, we don’t have a large buffer so I’ve decided to invest an amount that would fully cover our family deductible ($3,000) + leaves a healthy buffer for prescriptions or over-the-counter meds, etc.
  • FSA Dependent Care – I’ve pledged $700 for 2023. I used to put significantly more into my Dependent Care FSA, but as the girls are getting older I’m finding I only need it for occasional summer childcare and, thus, have reduced my investments. It’s use-it-or-lose-it, so there’s no advantage to extra savings.
  • 529 Education Account – I deposit $80/month. I’d LOVE to increase this, but it’s lower on my priority list until I become debt-free. In the meantime, I figure every little bit helps.
  • Tax Credit – Certainly not an “investment” but I wasn’t sure where else to include this. We always invest the amount allowed for AZ tax credit ($800 in 2022, but increasing slightly in 2023). As a side-note, I love that Arizona allows for tax credits so you can choose where your state tax money goes. I love to donate to my kids’ school as well as other organizations within the community that I support.
  • House – When we bought, we put more than 20% down, but we financed on a 30-year mortgage and have never really felt great about it. To try to pay it off early, we’ve made extra payments sporadically here and there, but in the past year we’ve established a set routine that works really nice for us – We do double house payments twice per year (the extra payment designated as principal only). I’ve set these up to occur in months where we have 3 paychecks so that the “extra” money is put toward the house.

 

Debt

  • Carmax Auto Finance – I have a current balance of $13,700. My monthly payment is $374, and I haven’t been paying much more than that (typically about $100 extra/month). Once my short-term savings accounts have been replenished, I’d really like to increase my payments here. My pie-in-the-sky goal is to put $1,000 toward this bill. My little bit more reasonable (minimum) goal is to make double-payments every month ($748/month). In my ideal pie-in-the-sky world, I’d love to pay off my car by the end of 2023.
  • Aidvantage – Current balance is $26,561. This consists of 4 different student loans, ranging from $4700 up to $7800. Ideally, I’d love to pay off the smallest loan by the end of 2023. That leaves just below $22,000 remaining. No telling what will happen in Washington in the meantime, which could also impact the balance due. This is currently interest-free and lower on my priority list.

  

Travel 

  • I realize this is a get-out-of-debt blog, but I’ve talked before about how travel is very important to me, especially in the wake of the loss of my brother. Life is short and time isn’t guaranteed. I want to travel and make memories with my family. In that regard, I have 2 trips planned in 2023 and a BIG trip planned in 2024 (that I’ll be saving for throughout 2023). Because I’m a planner, I’m budgeting very carefully for these trips.
    • The first is a Disney trip with the kids, this February. It’s their big gift for Xmas this year. We plan to drive, stay off Disney, and only spend 1 day at the park. We’ll then travel to San Diego to do the zoo, the USS Midway, and swing by Joshua Tree National Park on our way back to Arizona. In total, I’m budgeting $3,000 for this trip.
    • Next is a cruise with the whole family this summer. My mom has generously offered to help subsidize some of the costs because we will be taking care of my brother’s 2 youngest girls while on the trip (they will room with us and essentially be under our care for the duration of the trip). I’m budgeting $2,000 for this trip.
    • The BIG trip, not planned until Summer 2024, is going to be a trip to Italy with only Michael and I. We have not bought anything for this yet and have only begun doing research and planning, but it’s a big trip – international airfare, looking at 10-12 days in total, and all that entails (food, lodging, etc. etc.). I’m budgeting $6,000 for this trip.
  • Adding up the planned expenses and dividing by 12, I’m looking at a little over $900/month needed in savings. I realize this is a huge amount of money. Shoot – my rent used to cost less than that! But this is such a major priority for me and I don’t want to just wish and dream about it. I want to plan and save and make these things into my reality.

  

Rank order of goals:

  1. Investments – these are paid first, many coming from our paychecks prior to being deposited. For that reason, these are #1.
  2. Emergency Fund – until I get back to $5k, this is my #2.
  3. CarMax – I plan to start with double payments every month, but I plan to increase even higher when all short-term savings accounts have been funded.
  4. Travel – This is pretty non-negotiable. I hope to do it for cheaper than I’ve estimated, but I’d rather over-estimate and have extra money leftover, than under-estimate and end up left with a big bill in the end.
  5. Other short term savings – this includes money that I’m setting aside to pay for my student loans.

When I have extra money in a month, I plan to put extra toward #3 and #5.

What are your thoughts? I know this is a lot of money going toward savings (a much higher ratio of money going to savings versus debt), but this is where I feel comfortable. What would you do differently?

Dec 16, 2022    |       3 comments

On second thought

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I have been doing ALOT of self reflection these past couple of weeks. Like ALOT! Even more time in my head than ever before. And typically this would be dangerous ground for me especially in this season of loss.

Don’t get me wrong, I have spiraled down into uncontrollable sobbing on multiple occasions. And have been very tempted a couple of times to make some really terrible decisions. A couple of things have helped…

  1. I legit sprained my ankle a week back, right after my uncle’s funeral. So even if I was tempted to get out of the house for whatever reason, I didn’t. It just hurt to bad to put on shoes, let alone walk or stand.
  2. My son is watching me like a hawk. Gymnast has been watching me closely for my reaction and mental health. I know he’s worried about me, even if he would never admit it. And I’ll be honest, I probably wouldn’t have eaten much this week if he hadn’t taken caretaker duties to some extent. While I hoped this would be a healthy positive relationship, an example for my kids, instead, it’s a lesson to us all.
  3. Focus. I have kept busy by working on our New York trip, working, and making travel plans for me alone.

Despite all this, it is so hard. My heart hurts. My self-worth and confidence is in tatters. And as much as I preach to myself…”this is a reflection on his character, not mine”, ugh, it just feels terrible. All my hopes and dreams and plans, just thrown out like the garbage.

The book I’m reading, thought, wow, just wow. Highly recommend if you are facing any sort of transition or trauma. It has spoken to me on so many levels, given me perspective that I never even considered. (I read Chapter 5 today, which is all about forgiveness and how it is so important. I am floored and humbled and know that this was the book I was meant to read at this stage in my life.)

At the same time

Meanwhile, there are other things going on that require my attention.

  • Gymnast has completed his high school requirements. He has a semblance of a plan. And I need to help guide him.
  • History Buff and his girlfriend of 5 years ended their relationship over Thanksgiving week, and he is floundering like I am especially with her very public reactions. (I will not tell their story, but he and I are grieving albeit very differently over the same loss of dreams and heartache.) And he needs to be surrounded with support right now too.

Tearing myself apart

In both cases, they have helped me recognize some failures in my own life. I have been too divided for far too long.

Do I rebuild my business or return to corporate?
Do I do both? And burn the candle at both ends?
Move to this tiny town where the financial benefits will be amazing for the family?
Don’t move to this tiny town due to racial profiling and tensions, but then deal with never ending financial pressures as an under-employed single mom of five kids?
Homeschool or public school?
Prioritize my debt payoff or follow my heart with regards to my finances?
Travel or pay off debt?
Find a new job, pay off debt, travel?

I have literally torn myself apart over the last dozen or so years trying to do it all, be it all. With no sounding board, other than this community. No looking glass to know what the future holds. And with regrets abounding on so many levels.

As a result of these divided priorities, I have a floundered with indecision and without a clear path for far too long. It’s time for that to be over. It’s time for me to stop waiting and return to making decisions.

My advice

This has made advising the boys very easy. And given me direction that I have long needed.

Determine: What is your #1 goal right now?

Then do everything and anything to pursue that goal. Don’t worry about what the world thinks. Don’t worry about who is watching. Don’t worry about who sees you. Just go after it with everything you have got until you achieve it.

This focus changes the story for me. It affects my budget, my day to day life, and my mental health. All in really good ways.

So back to the drawing board on my 2023 budget. But for the first time, in a really long time (at least a year since I began floundering in my work environment,) I feel energized and focused and a bit like myself again. I’ll update you on the boys’ focus at a later date. I see big things coming especially for History Buff who has struggled a lot over the past 6 years.

 

 

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