by Hope
In my defense I haven’t sought a new “job” in almost 14 years. I’ve written before about how off my resume was at the beginning of this one and Faye from LeapofFaye.com jumped in and saved the day. And really, truly it was saving the day…I think to date I’ve had 8 first interviews for what I thought were ideal jobs. I count myself blessed with every single call I get from an application or recruiter.
But now I think, rather hope, I am coming to the end of several application processes…multiple interviews done, references checked and reviewed, interviews with CTOs done…etc. etc. What I haven’t been prepared for were questions regarding “What do you expect?”
I mean I’m good with my salary requirements question…and throwing in the request for a full benefits package, that’s coming pretty naturally. The thought of a paid day off, a paid vacation, well, that’s what dreams are made of!
But what other requirements do I have…and thus we come to Relocation Expenses vs Signing Bonus. I’ve pretty much been clear with companies that if I need to relocate…well, they have to pay for it. And then I was told this…
- Relocation Express – A budget is set at the beginning of the process, but I have to cover the costs upfront and then be reimbursed.
- Signing Bonus – Paid up front but taxed upfront, possibly at a high tax bracket?
So my question…what are your thoughts, have any words of wisdom for me on this front?
Relocation Expenses vs Signing Bonus – which would you choose? Pros and cons of each? Any words of wisdom greatly appreciated!

Hope is a resourceful, solutions-driven online business manager with over two decades of experience helping clients streamline operations, manage projects, and grow their businesses through digital marketing and technology.
But life has a way of rewriting your plans.
A year ago, Hope made the decision to move in with her aging parents full time – a season she wouldn’t trade, even as it came with its own financial and emotional weight. Earlier this year, she lost her mother, and is now walking the tender, disorienting path of grief while learning what “forward” looks like from here.
Hope came to the Blogging Away Debt community in 2015 as a single mom raising five foster and adoptive children. She’s written through job changes, financial setbacks, and the bittersweet transition to an empty nest. Her kids are finding their footing in the world now – and so is she.
Rooted in faith and fueled by the same perseverance she’s brought to every hard season, Hope is ready to face her finances with fresh eyes and an honest pen. She believes that clarity, courage, and community can change the trajectory of anyone’s story including her own.
She lives in Austin, TX with her dad, loves adventures with her dog Addie, and is figuring out, one step at a time, what this next chapter is meant to be.

So, what do you think ?