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Summer Book Club Review: Your Money or Your Life


I’m a little late with my review, as Your Money or Your Life was supposed to be our July book for our summer book club and I just finished it. Better late than never, right?

In June I reviewed Dave Ramsey’s Complete Guide to Money. Feel free to check that out, too!

Now, onto this review.


For some reason, I had a really hard time getting into this book. There’s an introduction and a prologue and I swear it took me 3 weeks to get through those few pages. But once I finally got into the first chapter, the book drew me in a bit more and I devoured it pretty quickly.

I definitely didn’t agree with everything the authors said. They start laying their argument by discussing how miserable many people are in their jobs:  the long commute, battling traffic, doing mindless work, and always looking forward to 5:00pm or punch-out time. They call it “making a dying” (instead of making a living). I have to say, this perspective really didn’t resonate with me at all. I think partly because I really love my job, partly because its still so fresh and new (and I’m just so grateful to have it), and partly because I don’t have the typical 9-5 job. There’s a little more flexibility and I find it to be challenging but enjoyable at the same time. So the way they framed the book really didn’t appeal to me. I felt like it was written for someone else.

That being said, I still really enjoyed the content. Some of the figures the authors present are really compelling – on average we have $8,000 of consumer debt for every man, woman, and child in the United States. Savings rates in 2007 were less than 1 %, compared to a 10.9% rate of savings in 1981.

The book was a little dated (and, therefore, so are the figures presented), but the core message is clear:  We spend our whole lives working and have nothing to show for it. No savings and lots of debt. So from that perspective, we’re certainly a slave to our jobs.

I also really enjoyed the various thought provoking exercises. Again – I didn’t feel that everything necessarily applied to (or helped) me, personally. Though I think much of that is because I’m already committed to my debt-reduction journey. If I read this book 3 years ago when I was still just contemplating tackling my debt (before I’d taken real and active measures to actually pay down debt) I think it would have been much more beneficial. Even so, there were several activities that still appealed to me.

Step 2 in the program is to “track your life energy.” The authors give two simple instructions to complete this step: “a) Establish the actual costs in time and money required to maintain your job, and compute your real hourly wage, and b) Keep track of every cent that comes into or goes out of your life.” The purpose of this activity is to step back and really assess our true income, after taking all job-related time and expenses into consideration (e.g., work clothing, commute time, lunches at the office, evening e-mails, etc.)

The authors pose the question: “If you didn’t need [your] money-earning job, what time expenditures and monetary expenses would disappear from your life?”

I also like how the authors continually push back against the traditional job scenario (the 40 hour work week for 40 years). They teach readers to think in terms of overall life values, satisfaction, and fulfillment and to examine how behaviors might change if work were not a requirement of survival. They challenge our culture’s very idea of “fulfillment” and explain the thin line between “enough” and “excess.” They teach the pleasures of frugality – of spending less, but enjoying more.

Overall, nothing was really rocket science in this book. They provide strategies to decrease spending and live a happier, more fulfilling life with less. But I liked how they tied together many psychological and even spiritual (to some extent) elements to make a case for the importance of changing our outlook on life:  to place more value on our time and less value on “stuff.”

I think this book would be particularly beneficial for those just starting (or thinking of starting) their debt-reduction journey, or for those who are struggling with budgeting.

If you’ve read this book, what did you think? Have you read any other good financial books or articles lately? (feel free to link in comments)

‘Stuff’ My Dad Says


Every once in a while, I try to read a book that isn’t somehow related to the economy, personal finance, or motivation. While I don’t write reviews of these books here, they are a big part of the reason I’m still sane…or at least a version of sane anyway.

I rented ‘Sh*t My Dad Says’ by Justin Halpern from the library and didn’t anticipate sharing it with you based on the fact that it isn’t about finance AND, let’s be honest, the name of the book makes it a rough sell – but hear me out.

Halpern moved home with his father at 29 after a particularly difficult break-up. Eternally amused and occasionally miffed by lessons from his father, he decided to write them down. The stories and quotes are funny and weirdly touching. Don’t tell anyone but – I cried during the last chapter.

It seemed like a good idea to read it on the train. ‘Seemed’ being the operative word.

I laughed so hard, people started to stare. Once I realized this, I attempted to stifle my laughter by closing my mouth… which only made my giggles come loudly out my nose as snorts. What seemed like 10 minutes into my commute, I looked up and realized I had missed my stop…3 stops ago.

After work, on the way home, I thought I fought the urge to burst into laughter a little better but when I went to exit the train, a gentleman touched my arm and asked what book I was reading. A little embarrassed, I showed him the cover and he said, ‘I have never seen someone laugh so much in a 45 minute period. I’m buying that book. Thanks for the afternoon entertainment.’

Here are some of the reasons I couldn’t stop laughing…

He was a good dog. Your brother is pretty broken up about it, so go easy on him. He had a nice last moment with Brownie before the vet tossed him in the garbage.

What happened? Did somebody punch you in the face?!… The what? The air is dry? Do me a favor and tell people you got punched in the face.

If it’s not bourbon or sweatpants, it’s going in the garbage… No, don’t get creative. Now is not a creative time. Now is a bourbon and sweatpants time.

The worst thing you can be is a liar… Okay, fine, yes, the worst thing you can be is a Nazi, but then number two is a liar. Nazi one, liar two.”

“Are you wearing perfume? …Son, there ain’t any cologne in this house, only your mother’s perfume. I know that scent, and let me tell you, it’s disturbing to smell your wife on your thirteen-year-old son.”

WARNING WARNING WARNING: This book contains profuse use of profanity. If you are at all sensitive, don’t read it.