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The Road to Unemployment…

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We have three streams of income for our household. 1) My husband’s construction company. We ramped this down to nearly nothing last year. He takes very occasional small jobs. 2) My husband’s night job working from home for my dad’s company. He’s been doing admin work there for a few years. He’s ramped this up since the fall, most recently working 20-30 hours a week. 3) My full-time job.

My paycheck covers all our basic bills. Everything he earns we use to pay non-reoccurring expenses like car repairs, vet bills, etc.

I felt safe with this set up since we never put all our eggs in one basket. No, my husband wasn’t earning a full-time income, but his part-time work made it so we could breathe. In the last month, everything changed. The construction jobs completely disappeared. We had a flurry for a couple weeks and then nothing at all. Then he was laid off at my dad’s company.

Our three-legged income is down to a single leg.

Then my work announced pay cuts. Far better than a furlough or a layoff, but still a hit to our income. We don’t have a percentage yet but they’ve announced it will be no less than 10%. They’ve also announced we should expect layoffs in the summer.

My husband was able to file for unemployment from the job he had at my dad’s company. Some have recommended we apply for the Payroll Protection Program for my husband’s company instead but the income has been so low since the fall we wouldn’t likely qualify. It took three tries to file for unemployment since the website kept crashing but we eventually got through.

I know some folks like to pay family cash ‘under the table’ but my dad raised me to always be honest with the IRS. My husband has been an official employee paying taxes for years. In times like these when unemployment is essential, I’m grateful for my dad’s wisdom. For all you folks out there who pay people under the table, it will eventually burn you.

Remember how I shared that 2018 was a banner year for us and we were slammed with taxes? Whelp, it’s burning us for a second time. We earned just over $150K in 2018 so we won’t be receiving the full stimulus payment. ‘But it’s based on 2019 taxes!’ Yes, I hear you yelling that. We paper filed our 2019 taxes (which are WELL BELOW the $150K limit) in early March. Thanks to the pandemic, they haven’t been processed so they are using our 2018 numbers. Yes, I know we will eventually get the rest of the stimulus money next year when we file our taxes but that doesn’t help us right now. Even worse, we are one of the millions of folks who get the ‘Payment Status Unavailable’ response.

And the awesomeness just keeps rolling for us. We are expecting a $6K refund. Per the IRS…

*sigh*

We had to register the kids for summer camp when registration opened and I was playing a shell game with that payment assuming my refund was coming soon. We decided not to use the emergency fund (learned our lesson on that one!) and instead, emptied some ‘sinking fund’ categories like our phone replacement and our clothing fund. Now I’m praying like crazy that we don’t break our phones and the kids can hold off on shoes!

Despite my long rant, things aren’t that bad. I’m grateful not have debt at this time. I don’t worry about a credit card bill, student loan, or a car payment. We also still have our emergency fund sitting untouched. We’ll come out of this just fine. We’ll be a little scraped. A little bruised. But far better than we would have been a few short years ago.

It is Time for My Adult Children to Adult

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History Buff has now been working his full time job for a month now. But his “adult” obligations have not increased at all. He continues to pay his cell phone and auto insurance bill through me as he’s on my accounts. But otherwise, he manages his own monies and does not contribute to the household.

Sea Cadet was sent home early from his “year with Americorp” due to the virus and has been seeking employment of any kind. But he is hoping to stay in his trained profession of EMS or emergency management. Meanwhile, he has resumed his duties as volunteer firefighter is now taking the Fire I course to become a firefighter. I have been covering his cell phone and car insurance bill while he has been serving with Americorp after his savings ran out and am continuing to do so while he finds work. He gets a bi-weekly stipend from Americorp and he uses it for his living – gas for his car, oil changes, etc for now.

Twins 13th Birthday – two weeks after they were placed with me as foster kids. I cannot believe how far we have come!

The Next Phase Towards Adulthood

After much research and speaking with trusted advisors, I have decided it is time for the twins to take the next step into adulthood. And frankly, this has probably caused me more sleepless nights and questioning of my parenting than most decisions I have made…so I am certainly not sure I am right. But this is what we are doing.

  • The twins will now pay $250 per month in rent. This will help cover the household bills, the groceries and such. All of which they contribute to. They will still be expected to do weekly chores as we all do to maintain our living environment. And they will continue to pay their own cell phone and auto insurance bills through me.
  • When their phone contracts end, they are to evaluate moving onto their own plan. It will be their decision if they want to stay under my account or move out onto their own. But either way, they will begin paying the service provider rather than me. And if they do remain under me, they understand that it is a 2 year commitment.
  • They must both begin preparing and researching moving out. At this time, the goal for that is next Spring. This time period was chosen to 1) give them plenty of time and 2) free me to make a move of my own after Princess graduates and heads off to college (assuming Gymnast chooses to remain with his dad.)

One more caveat, if either of them decides to return to school full time, they are always welcome to live at home, wherever that may be, I will do my best to help support them. But at this point, neither of them is planning to pursue additional schooling at this time.

These changes kick in for History Buff beginning in May. And for Sea Cadet in June. (If Sea Cadet does go to Virginia to work at the summer camp, he will not have to pay rent while he is away, but he will resume paying his other bills as soon as he has a full time job which we anticipate will be any day now.)

What do you think? Have you had to “phase” your adult children into adulthood and out of the house and your financial care? It’s a foreign concept for me and my siblings as we were all anxious to move out. And when we did live with our parents in adulthood, there was a specific purpose and time period already in place. Again, I don’t know if this is the right move, but it’s what I’ve come up with.