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Personal Finance Learning Goals for the New Year

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Personal finance learning goals

As the new year approaches, I’ve been thinking about how I can get better at managing my money. I’ve been a personal finance writer for over four years, which has helped give me a decent financial foundation. 

I feel like I’ve gotten a pretty good handle on financial basics like budgeting and saving. However, there are still things I want to learn more about. I feel like my knowledge of certain aspects of investing and taxes could definitely be improved, which I plan to work on in 2023. Here are my personal finance learning goals as we head into the new year. 

Taxes

I’m lucky that there are many tax and financial professionals on my partner’s side of the family, so I don’t handle my taxes and get free help. However, I want to start taking more responsibility for my own taxes. Although I know many other self-employed writers outsource their taxes, it almost feels hypocritical to write articles about how to file a tax return when I don’t do it myself!

I think what’s been holding me back is that taxes feel “scarier” than other aspects of personal finance. There are consequences and penalties for messing things up and underestimating how much quarterly estimated tax you need to pay. It feels safer to have someone else who’s a professional handle it, but that just seems like passing the buck. This year I want to face financial fears like taxes and become more self-sufficient. 

Investing

Another area of personal finance that I’m a bit uncomfortable and out of my depth with is investing. The main way we save for retirement is by investing in Vanguard target date funds through my spouse’s employer-sponsored 401k. We don’t do much investing outside of this. We aren’t enrolled in my spouse’s ESPP and I don’t have my own retirement accounts set up yet, which I need to work on in 2023. 

Again, I think the main reason why I’m intimidated by investing is that I don’t want to mess things up. There’s a real risk of losing money in the stock market if you purchase the wrong securities. I know better than to try to time the market, so I don’t want to learn day trading or become an active investor. I still want to buy and hold securities over the long haul, because I believe that’s the best, safest, and most reliable way to build wealth. 

But I think I want to diversify our holdings and invest in other assets besides Vanguard mutual funds. I want to learn how to create a balanced portfolio of stocks and bonds on my own instead of relying on Vanguard to do the heavy lifting for me. 

I also want to look into alternative investments like gold, REITs, and buying shares of farmland. I’ve heard that alternative assets can be more resilient during recessions and periods of high inflation. So I want to do some more research and see if it might be worth investing a small portion of our disposable income in nontraditional securities. 

However, I’m still going to stay far away from crypto and NFTs, which have never made much sense to me. Crypto doesn’t seem like it’s backed by anything and has always felt like speculation, so I avoid it. 

Wills

My spouse and I haven’t created wills or done any sort of end-of-life planning. The most I’ve done is sign up to be an organ donor. While I know that we’re young, we’re also starting to accumulate more assets. We’ve paid off about $30,000 of our mortgage, we have a fully funded emergency fund, and our 401k balance is starting to grow.

If both of us died, we’d probably want all of our assets to transfer to my spouse’s mom, who isn’t as well-off as my parents due to being a single mom for many years. As of now with no will in place, I’m not sure where our assets would go. So I want to learn more about end-of-life planning this year and maybe tackle putting together a basic will.

Healthcare and Insurance

Healthcare and insurance is another topic that makes my head spin! My spouse is the one who pays our medical bills and deals with insurance. A few months ago, we discovered a billing issue on one of our medical bills. Some basic outpatient lab work my spouse had done was miscoded and was several hundred dollars more expensive than it should’ve been. We didn’t pay the bill and my spouse is still fighting with the hospital to get the issue resolved.

When it comes to insurance and billing problems like this, I’m totally clueless. I’m not sure I would’ve even spotted the coding issue on my own! I want to be able to help more when problems like this arise, so I’m planning to do more research on health insurance and billing in the new year. Eventually, I want to take over and handle insurance-related phone calls since I have a more flexible schedule due to being self-employed.

Considering New Side Hustle Ideas

I don’t always have time to work side hustles. There are only so many hours in a day. But there is a new side hustle I’m considering due to the fact that superhero films are so popular – flip old valuable comic books for a potential few bucks.

Find Old Comic Books to Flip

I am not a comic book fan. There is a lot I need to learn about the fan culture. There is a big fan market out there where nostalgic collectors pay big bucks for specific comic books. I’m learning that one doesn’t need to be a comic book expert to understand what makes a comic book look like an investment.

They should be rare. Or be in good visual condition with no aesthetic damage. Or signed by a creator or feature an important storyline. If you have a stash of old comic books and want to quickly vet them, there is a way to check their current market value online for free.

There are plenty of good online comic price guides, you just need to find them.

I use it to vet old comics I find. Stay humble – you may only be able to make a few bucks at best or a few hundred if you’re lucky.

Share Your Thoughts

Do you have any financial weaknesses you want to shore up this year? Are there any aspects of personal finance you want to learn more about? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments section below! 

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Hope’s Budget – Almost Empty Nest version

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It looks like the last time I sat down to create a budget was fall of 2022. Boy, it’s been a roller coaster ride since then. For this go around, I tried to be exhaustive and super detailed in my review. I guess it’s part of my review and purge stage of life where I am working to rid myself of things, including financial line items that are no longer serving me. With that in mind and without further ado, this is my first draft of my 2023 budget. I do not anticipate this will actually take affect until mid-January, latest February. (See my notes and thoughts below.)

As I mentioned previously, I am shuttering my consulting company for the time being. (This still feels very, very weird but takes such a load off. For the first time in, well forever, my focus is not divided.) And my current contract job is not a long term option so I know it will be coming to an end, just not sure when. I am beginning to job hunt with a pretty intent focus.

That being said, I have based by budget on my current W2 income with anticipation that my next role will either match or exceed my current salary. Take home is right at $7,280.

Spending CategoryMonthly Amount
Mortgage650
Utilities - Water, Gas, Electric, Trash
300
Auto - Gas/Main
240
Auto Insurance
650
Groceries (includes pet food)400
Gym (beg. Jan)
26
Storage65
Spending
100
Savings
Giving (going for 10%)
150
Pandora
5
Netflix
19
Dogs (rolling)
100
Business (now Personal)
Internet - Home65
Cell Phone415
Annual/Quarterly Payments
Life Insurance (Qtr)
23
Birthdays (6 family members * $200/12 months)
100
Amazon Prime (annual)12
Walmart+ (annual)
9
Pest Control (Qtr)
30
Debt Payments
Student Loans306
Medical Bills250
Savings & optional
General Savings
150
Travel Savings250
Christmas Savings150
Car Savings (???)250
Clothing (rethinking this line item)
100
Monthly Total$4,815

Highlights

Optional but priority

Gym membership

Every remembers my last gym membership. What a waste of money! But this is different and the reason is twofold. And it will be new come January.

First, Gymnast and I began walking every day this past fall. We grab two of our dogs and go walk a lap or two around a small like (about 3/4 mile lap) before work. That has been wonderful for my health both physical and mental (his too.) But I am ready to take it up a notch. This is motivated by my breakup and more importantly by my travel goal. I cannot travel well if I am out of shape, lethargic and don’t move well or regularly. And travel is my #1 goal for the next couple of years. Within reason. So he and I have committed that as soon as we return from New York (our family Christmas present,) we are going to add gym time together to our schedule. I’ve got him for 7 more months so I need him to keep me motivated.

Secondly, part of my traveling plan is road trips. And while I am not a camper, I am not opposed at all to staying in my car at rest areas or other safe spots on occasion. Having this “nationwide” gym membership will give me somewhere to not only work out during those trips but also shower 🙂 Very important. If I don’t end up using that side of things, once Gymnast moves away, I will drop the membership level to the $10 version so I can just continue to work out when I am home. Crossing my fingers that I establish a habit before he moves away and keep it up myself.

Biggest drain

Auto insurance

Our auto insurance is insanely expensive. But with two teenage drivers and one recent wreck (Gymnast totaled a car last December) there is not anything I can really do about it. We did all install the safe drivers app our insurance company offers. After 6 months, based on our scores, we may be able to save up to 10%. Based on our current status, our discount will be 7%. But it won’t kick in until March.

Business, now personal

Now that I am shuttering my business, I am evaluating the costs that have traditionally been covered by my “business” and will now need to be covered by my personal income. I have moved the most basic that I KNOW I will continue and will use 2023 to either cut additional costs or to move them over to personal income. (Unless sometime, I decided to revisit restarting my own consulting firm.)

Cell phone

I continue to cover three of the kids’ lines. The rule of thumb was that I would cover phone cost until they were done with schooling. However, Beauty has been taking “breaks” from school and Gymnast doesn’t have plans to go to school now that he has completed high school. So what do I do here? Trying to figure out the new normal. And cut some costs.

Quit it? Membership fees

Currently, I pay for a few memberships that we share. But I am considering cancelling these in the coming months. These include:

  • Netflix – this is how I watch TV when I do watch. And I think most of the kids use this as well. But they keep raising the price. I am considering cancelling at the end of “winter.” That way I give the kids some notice, and keep it through the season that keeps us inside for the most part. Monthly cost savings $20
  • Amazon Prime (paid annually) – up until these past few months, I would say this has been worth the investment. I kept ALOT of items on autoship and shopped pretty regularly this way. Things like dog food, paper towels, toilet paper, other household sundries, and almond milk. But I’ve been cutting back significantly because frankly our usage of things has dramatically been reduced. While the girls still do come “shop” at mom’s house, it’s far less than it used to be. I just don’t think the price tag is worth it anymore. Thoughts? Monthly cost savings $12
  • Walmart+ – I signed up for this for the first time this fall. It’s only $99 but I just don’t think it’s worth it. I love the shop online and pick up at the store option, but that’s free. Signing up gave me free delivery, which I have used, but I’ve not been so impressed that I think it’s worth the cost. Pick up works just fine for me. There are other benefits for it, but frankly, I haven’t used them. I have several more months before it will renew. But right now, I think this one will get cancelled as well. Monthly cost savings $9

Savings

Travel savings

Anyone who has read BAD knows my love of travel. But for YEARS, the travel has been for kids’ events (gymnastics and robotics competitions) or visiting family (TX, GA, VA). But now it’s my time. My goal is two fold. I want to take a couple of larger international trips and see some cool places. And then I want to road trip some. For 2023, my goal is to take 2 international trips, maybe a week each. And then to do a longer drive across America trip in the spring. Timing is important. Right now, Gymnast is at home, so I would not have to pay to board or have someone care for the dogs. That is super expensive and quickly deters me from traveling too much. I am still working out what this budget item will look like. But I imagine the bulk of it will be spent in the first half of the year. This budget covers through August so the line item is higher with that tighter time frame than it will be in future plans.

Christmas Savings

This may be combined with my travel savings. The kids and I and I are super excited about our New York trip this year. (The trip is my Christmas present to the family.) And, of course, I had to tell them all early so everyone could get the time off work. My thought is to continue this as the new Christmas tradition…giving a trip or experience instead of presents. Now, don’t get me wrong, I did buy a few things, but nothing like normal.

Car Savings

This is new. And not necessary. But I am working on my three year plan since my break up. And this would be a part of that so I’ve added it in. I don’t know if it will remain. But I’m leaving it for now.

Clothing

I’ve provided the kids $300 twice a year for clothes while they were in school. This is the first year that I didn’t do that like clockwork. And I think it’s time to end of life this cost. However, I do want to ear mark some money to help out of the kids, all of them, from time to time. And I’m not sure how to budget for that. Like the time, I want to buy one of the twins new tennis shoes or pants. Or the time I take Princess grocery shopping when I visit her at school. Or when I stocked Beauty’s kitchen when she moved into her first apartment. I don’t know, just spit balling. What do you think? Does this need to be a line item? Or do I just bump my personal spending item and pull it out of there?