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Question of the Week
|What are you willing to give up, or not willing to give up, to get out of debt? For example-not willing to give up the gym because health is critical: willing to give up current home to live in a small space and save money. posted by Juhli|
|I feel like we have already made a lot of changes and none of them have caused a decline in our quality of life. For the last year my girls did not participate in dance or cheerleading (which they’ve both done since they were three) and while they miss it and will go back at some point, it was kind of a nice respite from how crazy our weekday evenings used to be. They currently only participate in sports that are offered locally for free and that keeps them happy and us busy enough to stay out of trouble! I also think my going back to work full time has been a huge sacrifice because I can’t be nearly as involved with my girls’ school activities as I used to be. This has been a big adjustment for me but even more so for them. I think it’s safe to say that we are pretty much willing to do anything short term to get out of debt as quickly as possible. The long term goal will be to stay out of debt.|
|Basically I am willing to sacrifice any superficial thing to get out of debt. We have already gotten rid of cable and our cell phones. Starting last month we cut back on eating out, with the intentions of only eating out once a month. As for not willing to give up… Well I think you all know that answer. I have very strong feelings about my self employment. I know in the deepest parts of my body, that I can make this entrepreneurship work. I know that eventually with what I am doing, I will be better off. And I also know that if I did take on a job, that I would let this dream die in me. Which eventually will do devastating things to me.|
|I will not give up opening our home to children in need. That was easy. Pretty much everything else is up for negotiation. And every day I’m looking for new ways to make money, save money and cut costs. I’m certainly not perfect and it is a daily battle for me, and I do mean daily, but I am committed – all in.|
|I’m trying to be open to sacrifices both big and small. In terms of “big,” Chris and I have decided to forego our annual Christmas trip back to Texas so we can save money (it will be our first Christmas in the 7 years we’ve lived out-of-state that we won’t be returning for the holiday). We had also originally been planning another trip this Spring. Chris has family in Seattle and I’ve never been to the area. Chris hates flying (read = |