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Weekly Debt Update #19- Father’s Day Weekend and Disney Prep

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Hope everyone is having a wonderful day.

This past weekend was Father’s Day, of course, so for all you fathers out there- here’s to you. Since my dad was down in Orlando visiting my nephew all weekend, we did not do any celebrating. After talking with my mom and brother, we’re holding off celebrating with my dad until the weekend of the 4th, since we all have the weekend off. However, just like for mother’s day where I celebrated GF being the “mother” of our dogs, she did some amazingly wonderful things for me. First, she made me breakfast, and then I got to spend most of the day doing what I wanted (spent playing guitar) while she worried about taking care of the chores. She made the dinner of my choice (her awesome homemade chili and a Greek salad) and then took us for a drive to a little, but fairly famous, road side stand for root beer floats. On the way back, we stopped at a beach and relaxed in the park. Here’s me on a child’s swing, lol:

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As for Disney prep- I appreciate all the amazing comments on last week’s post. We now have some ideas for what we are going to do for food on our way back. Chances are at this point, we’ll find a grocery store outside of Disney and grab some items to pack in our cooler on the way back. Like I said before, GF has begun picking up non-perishables for the ride down. The way she coupons and shops, I don’t see a problem having enough non-perishable foods for both the way down and the way back up. We also started doing a “hardcore” cleaning of our house. The house never gets really dirty, but we don’t clean into the nooks and crannies too often. GF and I agree that there’s no better feeling after vacation than coming home to a super clean house. This way we won’t have to worry about doing much in the ways of chores when we get back. If there’s one thing about Disney, with the amount of walking and the lack of sleep, you could use a vacation after, so to speak, lol.  We started doing the cleaning last night and we’ll move room to room until we leave in a couple of weeks.

For the last week of debt payoff, here’s the numbers:

Loan NameInterest RateOriginal Balance- May '09Current BalanceTotal Paid OffPaid Since Last Week
Sallie Mae 015.25$27,837.24$23,838.59$3,998.65$57.94
Sallie Mae 024.75$22,197.02$18,702.35$3,494.67$48.15
Sallie Mae 037.75$20,692.10$0.00
$20,692.10$0.00
Sallie Mae 045.75$10,350.18$5,925.89$4,424.29$345.74
Sallie Mae 055.25$6,096.03$0.00$6,096.03$0.00
Sallie Mae 06 and 074.75$6,415.09$0.00$6,415.09$0.00
Sallie Mae- DOE 015.25$5,000.00$0.00$5,000.00$0.00
Sallie Mae- DOE 025.25$3,000.00$0.00$3,000.00$0.00
AES6.8$9,000.00$0.00$9,000.00$0.00
TOTALS$110,587.66$48,466.83$62.120.83$451.83

Father’s Day Recap

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Our Father’s Day this year was really low-key. Unfortunately (or fortunately, considering our no-income month of May!!!), hubs had to work the entire weekend, including a full day on Sunday.

Also, my recent travel last week made it feel like Father’s Day really snuck up on me this year. I’ve gotten pretty good with frugal gift-giving, but I hadn’t adequately planned or prepared for anything this year so I was left scrambling at the end of the week to figure something out.

Just one of the many, many reasons I’m grateful for this blog!

I blatantly stole –ahem- “borrowed” Matt’s idea and decided to do something that I knew my husband would really appreciate, but wouldn’t take a lot of time or money. I made him a bag of his favorite things!

I went to the store pretty last minute (cough, Sunday morning, cough) and got all kinds of goodies that I would never normally splurge on at the grocery store (e.g., expensive nuts, cereals, pudding snacks, etc.). All in, I spent less than $30 for a bag full of stuff that hubs loves.

Plus, this was my third annual Father’s Day D-A-D picture! I think this is the best year yet!

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See last year’s pictures here

For the other Fathers in our lives, I did my usual thing – I made the girls do a craft! It was a little more low-key than some of our other crafts simply because I was out of time! I didn’t even get our cards into the mail until Friday afternoon so I knew they were going to be late and I really just needed to get the project done! I had the girls color on some white paper and then I cut the paper into rectangles. I glued the rectangles onto heavy cardstock to give it a more “finished” look, and tucked it into the card envelope along with a couple recent pictures of the girls. Easy-peasy, DONE!

I’ve said it before, but one of the biggest changes I’ve made since starting to blog here has been in scaling WAY BACK on the amount I spend on gift giving. When my sister and I were visiting my Dad we talked about what our plans were for Father’s Day. My sister took her hubs to a hotel on the San Antonio River Walk and was contemplating whether she could swing his “dream gift”: An Xbox One. AN XBOX ONE!!!!! We’re talking a $350 gaming console. Add the hotel, eating out, and they’re looking at about a $500+ Father’s Day. I love my sister and am saying this not to pick on her, but because I would have been in the same boat! Before blogging here I would have thought nothing of spending a couple hundred on a Father’s Day gift for hubs ($500 would have still been a little pricey for me, but I could definitely see spending in the $150-200ish range!). For his first Father’s Day (pre-blogging days) I bought him 6-week long golfing lessons! I know he enjoyed it, but talk about pricey!

Cutting back on the amount we spend on gift-giving was a little scary at first. I know its silly, but I was kind of worried at first. It’s like we equate dollars spent to love. If I went from spending $50-$100 on gifts down to $15-20, would people be mad? Offended? Upset?

You know what? Overwhelmingly I feel like they don’t even notice! Many of these gift-giving occasions are bulk gift-giving things (like weddings and baby showers). Recipients write down the gift so they can write a thank you card, and then promptly forget who gave what and how much it might have cost. Also, I’ve gotten a lot better about writing personal and heart-felt notes. Instead of just sending a $50 gift card with a generic “Congratulations” card, I send a much cheaper gift (but one that I actually put thought into to make sure the recipient will enjoy/use), and a really nice card. I’ve even taken time to think up little rhyming poems that are funny and sweet and match the occasion.

So if anyone is reading that’s just starting the debt-reduction journey, might I humbly suggest really taking a knife to your gift-giving budget? I’m not suggesting you be stingy or cheap. But I AM suggesting that you could spend more time actually thinking about a meaningful (and less expensive) gift and writing a really nice card. It’s made a huge difference in our budget! I hope it can make a difference in yours, too!

What did you do for Father’s Day? Do you send gifts to all the fathers (or grandfathers) in your life?


Father’s Day on the Cheap!

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Father’s Day is coming up! T-minus (less than) 1 week!

Fathers never seem to get the same appreciation mothers do. I know of several comedy sketches about this discrepancy. But regardless of rhyme or reason, Father’s Day doesn’t seem to have the same costs associated with it that Mother’s Day might. I think (for myself, personally), I have no problem simply sending a nice card to the special Dads in our lives, whereas I always feel like Moms deserve a special gift. Why is this?

My family, specifically, also doesn’t have as many Dads in it as Moms.

By comparison, between the husband and myself, we have 2 Moms and 3 Grandmas/Nanas. But between the two of us we only have 1 Dad, 1 StepDad, and no living Grandpas. This alone dramatically reduces the financial impact of Father’s Day.

But, by and away, the most special “Father” in my life is my husband – father to our children. And I want to do something special for him. But, being on a budget, it needs to be cheap!

So here’s what I came up with….

Last year (pre-budget) I paid for my husband to have professional golf lessons and gave him this fun framed photo of our girls (barely 11 months at the time)

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At first, I thought I would recreate this photo session with our (now) 23-month-olds! But a quick search for the letters in some craft boxes left me empty handed. I know they’re somewhere, but I lacked the time and energy to search more thoroughly (we have several craft boxes and they may have even ended up in the attic). Instead, I thought it might be fun to do a similar picture using different props.

I whipped up some homemade signs that said: We (heart) Dad!

My plan is to have them printed and put back into this same frame – costing only the amount of the prints (about 10 cents each = 30 cents total)! I just did the photo shoot this weekend so I don’t have them printed yet but here are a couple fun “outtake” photos:

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You get the idea. Have I ever mentioned how challenging it is to work with toddlers as the photo subjects? ; )

And, although this would still be a loving and heart-felt gift on its own, I felt like I needed something else. I did a little googling and decided on a funny shirt. Husband loves to laze around in t-shirts on his days off and he’s always in need of t-shirts since his often become converted into “work shirts” after awhile (and then become destroyed).

So….don’t be offended(!!), I just thought this was a funny shirt that husband might appreciate

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Have I ever told you guys the story about how we found out we were having twins (we didn’t find out until 20 weeks into the pregnancy)? Shock of a lifetime! Ha! I’ll have to share it sometime!

At any rate, the shirt only cost $12. With shipping it was $15. Add that to the 30 cents for printing the photos and I think that’s a pretty reasonably priced Father’s Day gift. One part sweet/sentimental and one part funny/practical.

What are you doing for Father’s Day? Any other good gift ideas?

 

 

 


For the Fathers…

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I’m not sure how I got him but… I have the world’s best father.

Patient, wise, brilliant, loving… he’s an all around great guy.

He encouraged creativity and made me feel like I could do anything. Now that I’m striving to become debt free, he is one of my biggest supporters. We I get frustrated, he is the voice of reason. When I get stressed about life, he brings things into perspective. When I get confused about the finance world, he knows all the answers.

I think he secretly has Google software in his brain because no one should know THAT much.

Thanks for being such a great dad.

I love you.