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No, No, No – I’m not Going to Sell This Stuff

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It’s hard to believe, but it has been years since my friend passed away. I still think about him daily, and I still wonder why he had to take his own life.

I would like to share with everyone something about my friend that I have carried with me through my life. It’s funny how a little comment can have such an effect on you. Here’s the brief story.

While at my friend’s house, he let slip out that he has tons of things in the attic that the previous owner had left. Being the treasure finder that I am (you should see me at garage sales – LOL), I wanted him to show me. We went in the attic and my mouth dropped. It was a goldmine in terms of antiques. There were records, old store items, just lots of old everything.

I said, “Wow, you can get so much money for this stuff when you sell it.”

He quickly replied, “No, no, no. I’m not going to sell this stuff. All of it needs to go into a museum or something for everyone to see.”

I didn’t reply, and sort of changed the subject. Here he had probably a few thousand dollars worth of antique items sitting in his attic (I’m guessing here – but he could have made a bit of money) and he wanted to see a museum get the items. I think that simple conversation surprised me so much because I’ve never really known of someone like that before. Someone who has a treasure, but doesn’t want the money for it.

He never did get a chance to go through his attic before he died. His comment made such an impact on me that I wanted to go through the attic and make sure it goes to the local museum/archives like he wanted. I asked his parents, and they boxed everything up for me and let me handle the task.

About a fourth of the items went to the local history archives. They found some value with the old bills and some of the older paperwork. And the other items went to a local history museum. I have walked through the museum since donating the items and I have found them all around the museum on display.

My friend certainly was special. He was the type of person that would do anything to help, even if it meant helping someone he didn’t know or helping a local organization. He could have used the money from selling those things, but he chose to not to.

Man, I miss you my friend…

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Guess Who Received their Payment?

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I have to laugh – AT&T received their payment yesterday. They were nice enough to send me an email to let me know.

I was pretty cautious of my entire phone call from them as being a scam, but it really sounds like everything was legit.

But still, it’s never a good idea to give your banking information out with a call that you did not initiate (just to be on the safe side).


Bad Money Decision Confession Time

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Bad Money Decision Confession #1

My husband was left with a $40,000 inheritance from his grandmother. His grandparents were very knowledgeable in the stock market and made a bit of money.

To this day, I wonder where it all went. I know $10,000 was given to his mother to pay off the loans that she took out to help my husband with college costs. We also used some to pay for summer school. We bought a 27″ TV and we bought a $3,500 computer because my husband is into videography and needed a good computer for it. I also remember that one credit card was paid off completely ($1600) and I think some more money went to another one.

But really – at least $10,000 of it I have NO IDEA where it went. That’s not good. But we were young (both were 21) and naive about money. I think probably most of it went to eating out and spending the money on frivolous items.

If I had known then what I have known now, that money would have been spent so much wiser.

But as they say…you live, and you learn.

Anyone else care to confess a bad money decision? πŸ™‚

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Why Pull a Credit Report on a Potential Employee?

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What is this I hear that some employers are now pulling credit reports on potential employees.

My reponse – UNBELIEVABLE!!

Because of my debt, I have less than a stellar credit report. Will a potential employer see my debt load and decide that they do not want to hire me? Maybe they will see me as a potential embezzler? I’ve stolen a total of three things in my life. Once I stole some nail polish from a garage sale when I was 5 (and hid it away because I felt so bad). And the other time was when I was a teenager I stole two $1.00 pins (and went back and sneakily returned them because I felt so bad). Even in my darkest financial hours the thought of obtaining money through dishonest means never crossed my mind.

And who cares if someone has some late payments? How is that going to relate to the ability of a person to do the job they have applied for? Credit reports do not give the story behind a late payment. Maybe a major event happened in someone’s life and they missed a bill? Gosh knows that when a loved one dies – other smaller things in life like mailing a bill payment just take a backseat.

Man, I guess this is just a sore spot with me…whew! πŸ™‚

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Finance Charges Paid in March – $417.49

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I’ve decided to add another section to my monthly reporting – finance charges. It’s one that not everyone may pay a lot of attention to unless they are keeping track of where their dollars are going. And when you do keep track – oh my…it is an eye opener.

It is so sad to see that I spent $417.49 in finance charges for March. But, by golly – it is so good to have it right in my face. I am ready to look this beast in the eye and defeat it (sorry – getting myself all pumped up here – think of the “Eye of the Tiger” song playing in the background as you review the report πŸ™‚

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My “Money Test” Results

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MFF over at www.mymoneyforest.com developed a short test to determine your knowledge about money.

I love these things, so I had to participate and here are my results:

Financially Smart
You scored 90 on the MyMoneyForest.com Financial IQ test!
Congratulations, you are financially intelligent! There is a very good chance that you will invest responsibly and be able to retire! No fixed income for you during retirement! You will likely be able to pay for your children’s college tuition, own a nice home, and be debt free! Keep up the good work! To learn more about personal finances go to: mymoneyforest.com

My test tracked 1 variable How you compared to other people your age and gender:
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You scored higher than 75% on Financial IQ

Link: The Money Test written by mtman77 on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test
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