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How I Paid for Princess School

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I know my decision to allow Princess to finish her last two years at a private high school is controversial here at BAD. But the good news, is that this year, her junior year is now paid for in its entirety…and no new debt added.

As I mentioned in the post announcing her decision, the cost for the year, after grants and merit scholarships was $3,000. I had decided to do my best to pay it in two lump sums of $1,500 a piece to avoid the monthly payment plan fee and because I didn’t feel like I could pay the full amount up front.

How Did I Pay for Her Private School

BUT…a family member who wishes to remain anonymous graciously offered to pay 1/2 of her tuition…and I had already been saving to pay the other half due at the end of this month. By having the full amount up front, I was able to take the 5% discount, saving $150. Perfect!

Side Hustle Income

So how, you ask, did I have an extra $1,500 in my budget for this expense? Well, thankfully, a client referred another client to me this summer. And the project I am completing for them came to $1,200. It was not in my monthly income to cover regular expenses, so I was able to just dedicate it to this new expense without missing a beat. As a contractor, this happens regularly. And while the projects are not always so lucrative, I do get them a few times a year.

And saving the extra 5% made this even better because I only had to add an additional $150 in out of my regular income and voila, the year of school was paid for!!! A weight off my shoulders, for which, I am very grateful.

You Did Warn Me

Now several of the commenters did warn me of “extra” costs, and I was already surprised by a new one…a $125 activity fee. This fee isn’t due until next month so I have some time to work it into my budget AND contact the school to find out if there will be any more surprises! More to come on that…

(But I had already checked on school trips, etc. and actually the junior year is the one year they don’t take a grade level trip. Woot, woot! And now I am forewarned for next year.)

Transporation

I mentioned there was a bus that would transport Princess to and from the new school…but yikes, the price is $750! Nope, not doing it. That’s essentially 3 car payments…almost a semesters worth. Not happening. So I’m keeping that money in my pocket and will drive her myself. That’s a good chunk toward another car for me…however, that decision works out.

Uniforms

This past weekend, we visited Kennesaw State University for History Buff. (And I make Princess go on all the twins college visits so we don’t have to return anywhere twice.) But while we were down that way, I decided to swing by the uniform store to get Princess sized, etc. Little did I know, that I would be purchasing her uniform then as well…but it worked out. But a whopping $497 was spent on uniform pieces.

But I am happy to announce she is all set for the school year. Unless she needs something for volleyball, she will not need any additional clothes for at least this school year and probably next school year as well!

Now before you jump down my throat on this expense, know this…I have always given the kids $200-300 in the fall and the spring for new clothes. It’s in my budget. If these clothes can last the next two years…and there is no reason they shouldn’t since Princess is done growing. I will actually have saved money on clothes!!!

This money was already saved and expected…we just spent it a little earlier than normal. But that’s okay. She is now ready for her new school and have clothes that fit well.

 

I feel very good about this decision made by Princess for herself. I think empowering her to make this move will have a positive long term affect on her. And I can already see the pride she has in just the accomplishment of being accepted. Here’s to new challenges and new things!

Introduction to Elizabeth’s Debt Story

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Hi everyone! I’m Elizabeth, and I’m a new blogger here at BAD. I’m excited and nervous to come on board, as I’ve been a reader of this blog for a couple of years, and I know the readership is scrupulous. That’s part of the reason I’ve decided to share my story – I know readers will call me out when I need to be called out, and I want to be held accountable. I’ll write my first few posts sharing my full financial story, and I’d love to hear what you all think.

Why am I here? Well, I’m in debt. My parents raised my four siblings and me with financial sense and tried to teach me to save money. My dad was a teacher before he retired, and he had paper routes, taught summer school, and even did pharmaceutical experiments to pay for our extracurriculars. I got a job at 14 and haven’t stopped working since, but I’ve always spent everything I’ve earned.

I’m 32, single, and an IT manager at a medium-sized global company. I live in Toronto, the most expensive city in Canada. 1-bedroom apartments average over $2200, and housing insecurity is pervasive. I’ve rented an old house in a cheaper part of the city (meaning I have a long commute!) for five years now, and luckily I only pay $1350 for my three bedrooms, but I do all my own repairs and maintenance. It’s a good deal, and I’m pretty handy. My yard and spare bedrooms for visitors make me happy (my family lives far away), and seeing basement apartments posted in my neighborhood for over $1400 reinforces that I’m stuck here, anyway. I don’t know what I will do if I need to move sooner, which is why one of my goals is to save for my own house. 

I make 82k yearly with a 10% bonus. After taxes, retirement contributions, and other (mandatory) deductions, I take home $2193.22 bi-weekly. I have been interested in personal finance for a couple of years, and I’ve managed to improve my credit score with a lot of work, but I still have over $35k of debt and nothing left over each month. That’s right, I make 82k and have no savings. I have huge lifestyle changes to make. As a result, I’m looking at snowballing my credit card debts (paying off the lowest balances first, which also happen to have the highest interest rates). I’ll share the beginnings of my debt plans in my next post. From a high level, it looks like this: 

 

I’m making financial plans as a single person, but I don’t plan to be single forever. I’m recently out of a long relationship that was happy but financially incompatible. He didn’t care about money at all, and I became increasingly concerned about the future. I’m on my own now and don’t want to rely on anyone. Here’s what I’m saving for: 

  1. Emergency savings. I have $321 saved for an emergency right now
  2. Housing. If I’m thrust into the housing market soon (always a risk as a renter), I’m in trouble
  3. A family. I don’t want to close doors for myself, and I’m exploring adoption (for down the road, but since it can take many years, I am beginning the process now). I wouldn’t adopt a child for a few years, after building savings and moving to a low cost of living city. 

What would you like to see? I’m happy to share every detail. I’m working on a detailed budget right now. It’s funny, tools like mint.com have become so easy and automatic, I rarely sign in to check on things, and I don’t learn from ongoing trends. Consequently, I’m working on a manually-updated breakdown of my spending, but even the early numbers are scary. Does anyone have a great spreadsheet template to recommend? Bonus if it supports a bi-weekly paycheck (I’m paid every other Friday, and occasionally have months with a 3rd paycheck). I would love to be able to plug in my budget, spending, and debts all in one sheet. 

Next up: The mean, green numbers. My spending and lifestyle choices, broken down for you to see. Looking forward to hearing from you all!