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My husband and I sat down with sharpened pencils and sketched out a plan of action. We would have sketched this out earlier but we just received the unemployment numbers on Friday.
The big question…
How long can we hold on without my husband’s job?
Our initial numbers (without unemployment benefits) put us at 8 weeks. Our reductions to debt paired with our cash in savings and unemployment benefits put us at…
9 months.
Had this happened before we had taken control… had this happened before we made the decision to live below our means and reduce debt… we would have made it through a month, maybe two tops.
But now, we’re looking at 9 safe months. 9 months to find a job before things get hairy. Sure we won’t make progress other than minimums and we certainly won’t eat anything other than Ramen noodles but, we can hold on.
I have four words to say –
Thank. You. Dave. Ramsey.
I learned a lot about the Making Home Affordable/Home Affordable Modification Program (HAMP) in my 2 hour call with Bank of America.
1 – If you are hoping for a huge change… this is not the answer. Not all changes are permanent and/or large. Some adjustments may last as little as 3 months.
2 – Loan modifications are not quick. If you can’t wait the standard 9 weeks for the review of your file and another 5-9 weeks for paperwork processing, you don’t have enough time and you may want to move forward with other options like a short sale or foreclosure.
3 – Give an accurate listing of all your expenses. Don’t exaggerate but don’t minimize either. Have a good understanding of exactly how much you are paying. Keep this information available for when you call the bank.
4 – You will be rejected if you have recently made large purchases or if your credit score is low. You shouldn’t be making large purchases anyway so I can’t say as if I blame the banks for this stipulation.
5 – If you have a second mortgage with another lender, they will likely require you to get approved for the Making Home Affordable Program on your first loan before they will consider a change to your second mortgage. If you are accepted for the program on your first loan, it’s easy to submit the same paperwork for your second mortgage.
6 – This should not be your only option. It’s worth a try, but don’t fool yourself into thinking this will solve your problems.
7 – If your home is not a Fannie Mae/Freddie Mac mortgage, this program does not apply to you… BUT some lenders are still willing to modify other types of loans.
8 – This is a voluntary program. No one HAS to help you. Sure it’s good business sense to lessen foreclosures on the banks part, but if you are a problem child, don’t expect any help. Banks don’t want to keep you as a customer anyway. Be kind, courteous, and polite even if you are frustrated.
According to the bank’s calculations, my husband and I qualify. We are now in the first 9 week waiting period while they review our files. We have stellar credit scores and we haven’t made large purchases in a long time. We are good candidates for an interest rate reduction from the over 7% it is currently, down to the market rates of 5-6%.
Do I really think it will really happen?
No. But it’s worth a try.
My husband’s company has reduced their workforce by about 70-80% from the peak. He’s been fortunate to survive and, since things had calmed down a bit, we got comfortable. We participated in weddings, did little remodel jobs, and went out to dinner a few times.
That was a mistake.
Today, my husband’s co-worker was laid off and another was reduced to part-time without benefits. It looks like less than a 3 month count down until my husband gets the axe.
I am terrified.
At this point, since we had to clear out part of our savings, we can only last 8 weeks without his paycheck.
That number sends a terrifying chill through my bones.
I’m focusing on the good though:
1. He still has a job today.
2. I lost my job last year and we survived.
3. We’re both healthy.
4. The new seasons of Private Practice and Grey’s Anatomy have started.
It’s all about priorities.
September turned out to be a painful month for us. Two weddings and all the hoopla that comes with them hit us for more than $2,000. Fortunately we were able to keep the expenses off our credit card but we had to rob our dwindling savings account.
I had NO idea how expensive it is to be a part of a wedding. New rule – no more weddings except for family.
We made no progress and made only the minimum payment on the truck.
Debt Breakdown:
Auto Loan 1: $0
Credit Card: $0
Student Loan: $9,731.52
Auto Loan 2: $11,532.21
Friday, my husband left on a cruise to Mexico with my brother’s bachelor party. As I said earlier, he charged the entire bill to our credit card since the cruise lines won’t let you split the tab.
I was angry since we had just paid off our card – and because we’ve been burned in the past when we allowed others to use our credit.
Just as I expected, there were problems… but not the kind of problems I had guessed. Not only did the guys pay before they left, they overpaid by $20 each (we’re giving it back).
Our credit card still took a hit from my husband (I’ll talk about the REAL expenses of a cruise in a later post) but we’ll be able to pay it off before it rolls over and starts to accrue interest. We won’t be able to pay extra on the auto loan but at least we’ll be heading into October without credit card debt.
Would I loan money again on my credit card? Even though it actually worked out this time, I’m still SOLIDLY on the no side.
Our credit card WAS paid off. Obvious emphasis on the past tense.
My husband is attending a bachelor party this weekend and the event required one credit card to book the trip for all five attendees (the bill could not be split). Most of our friends know about our recent credit card payoff (maybe shouting that fact from my roof and breaking into song was a clear sign) and naturally suggested that since we ‘had the room’ on our card (as if it were free), that my husband pay for the entire trip and be reimbursed later.
I’m not going to lie. I am upset.
Perhaps I’d be more trusting if this hadn’t happened before with concert and event tickets and in the end, we were always short. People conveniently ‘forget’ to pay or promise to pay later and then get annoyed when reminded. Plus, the credit card will be kept on file in case there are damages to the room or if alcohol is consumed.
When I asked why someone else couldn’t pony up a credit card, he told me it was because everyone is nearly maxed out but us. Um… isn’t that a good reason NOT to loan these people our credit card?
My husband and I rarely fight but this is a sensitive issue for me and I feel like we are opening ourselves up to a lot of potential debt.
Am I overreacting?
Now that our credit card debt is gone, a reader asked what our next step is going to be.
Dave Ramsey suggests paying the extra amount on your lowest debt (which would be the student loan) but the minimum payment on our truck is more 4 times higher than the student loan. Plus, the interest rate on the truck is twice as much.
Another good reason to pay more on the truck is to quickly rid ourselves of the hefty payment. In the event of job loss, a student loan can be deferred due to financial hardship – auto loans are not nearly as forgiving.
We’re hoping to have the truck paid off in 10 months or less.
Here we go!
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My Debt
- Original Debt: $38,495.86
- Paid: $17,232.73
- Remaining: $21,2163.73
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- Auto Loan 1: $0
- Credit Card: $0 Woo Hoo!
- Student Loan: $9,731.52
- Auto Loan 2: $11,532.21
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