Comments on: When Life Puts Things Back in Perspective

By: Roger Mayne

Roger Mayne — Tue, 12 May 2009 21:12:50 +0000

Thanks for sharing that information. With the economy in such bad shape at the moment, more people are finding themselves in debt – maybe losing their homes, or their jobs. Information like yours will definitely help many people.

By: fathersez

fathersez — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 09:44:17 +0000

Good for you. Take a break. I am also going through something similar. A dear friend has just been diagnosed with stomach cancer. A friend who was on top of the world and so looking forward to life just a month ago.

Talking to him as he ponders the days ahead makes all my problems and inadequacies seem so tiny.

THis experienced had strengthened my immense gratitude for what I already have.

By: paisley penguin

paisley penguin — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 17:51:22 +0000

I too can get a little obsessed with debt. I have revamped our payoof program so many times my husband, patient that he is, is sick of hearing about it. I just can’t escape the fact that we have a long road ahead. Not only do we have debt to pay down but a savings account to increase and a condo that needs some projects finished.

I have come up with a new and I hop final way to tackle this while still having a life and some fun.

By: Kristy @ Master Your Card

Kristy @ Master Your Card — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 07:28:53 +0000

I’ve written about this recently over at MYC. I just don’t think debt should control someone’s life nor do I think the rest of the pieces that make up your world should take a back seat to debt. I agree that getting out of debt is important, but so are family and friends and just living life in general. I realized that while I was working to get out of debt, I wasn’t really living. Even after I got out of debt I wasn’t really living. I’m sort of overcompensating for that fact now and need to reign myself in, but regardless, life is too short to always be worried about money. You deserve a day off! Enjoy!

By: Susanne

Susanne — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 21:39:52 +0000

I can relate to this. I am so focused on getting rid of credit card debt – especially now that we are seeing the light at the end of the tunnel – that it’s become a bit of an obsession. We’ve also taken on more work to speed up the process. At least we’re motivated…

By: Mr Plasectomy

Mr Plasectomy — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 11:28:06 +0000

I have to agree that there needs to be a balance. If you have small children and you spend all your time working you will miss out on some major milestones; first steps, first words, first day of school, etc.

What if you’re married? Not spending that time you may find that your relationship begins to suffer. Marriage is work too and needs investment to continue for the long haul.

It’s good to take a day off and focus on the other important things in life. Enjoy it.

By: Investors times

Investors times — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 11:14:59 +0000

I am having the same problem but the opposite way. I am always thinking about how to avoid debt. It has almost become an obsession. Good luck with that debt tricia. I hope that one day people will return to how they were in the past and have debt only when it is needed.

By: Margot

Margot — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 17:56:10 +0000

I believe in balance over the long-term, not the short-term. When I made a mess of my finances, it was worth it to have no balance for a shorter period of time to clean up a mess I’d made over a longer period of time. I didn’t expect the mess to go away without sacrifice and work, and it’s been better for me and my family to have less balance in the short-term to clean up the mess faster. Similarly, I wouldn’t have achieved much in life if I was always seeking “balance.” There are times when I put 90% of myself into work because that’s what’s required for starting a business or taking a project to the next level. There are times I’ve put 90% of myself into my marriage because we decided to travel (debt free) for a few months to focus on each other and travel.