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My Copy of "Health Care for Less Than You Think"... » Blogging Away Debt — Tue, 13 Nov 2007 04:45:26 +0000

[...] Care on Less Than You Think (amazon referral link) was shipped off early this week to Isaac and he received it on Thursday. Thank you to everyone who [...]

By: Save Sheila

Save Sheila — Mon, 20 Nov 2006 01:35:58 +0000

You have some amazing friends here! I am in D’s corner (the first comment). Just enjoy your Christmas and take care of the basic debt. You don’t have to go hog-wild buying presents; my husband and I have agreed not to exchange gifts; I’ve told my brothers and sister that we aren’t exchanging gifts this year, but I’ll bake them some stuff and send it. The memories are what’s important, not the gifts. Your mental health is a wonderful gift. Don’t lose it on commercialism.

By: Tricia

Tricia — Sun, 19 Nov 2006 13:54:39 +0000

Isaact – that’s great that you received the book safe and sound. Hope you enjoy it! And thanks for the link

By: Isaac Harris

Isaac Harris — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 22:05:57 +0000

I just got the book. Thank you again. I put a post on my site that has a link to your page. Hopefully it will help send more readers your way.

By: Tricia

Tricia — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 16:54:49 +0000

Thank you everyone so very much for your words of support and encouragement. As soon as I get a chance, I will write a post replying to you.

By: Him

Him — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 14:33:16 +0000

We know exactly how you feel. We've suffered from financial fatigue. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. You'll get through it, you've been doing so awesome!

By: Matt

Matt — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 14:22:21 +0000

We all go through the rough patches, but remember the light at the end of the tunnel is going to keep getting brighter and brighter over time. It might be hard now but the best part of the whole scenario is that when you are completely paid off you will have some extra money to spend on things. Just remember the misery of being in debt upto your eyeballs and not knowing how to get out; imagine living that way for the rest of your life. That should make the rough patch a bit less rough.

You’ve been doing an amazing job and you’re an inspiration to me and I’m sure many other bloggers; keep up the great work and I’m sure you’ll get through the roughness.

As for the fatigue… it’s almost friday.

By: Kim L.

Kim L. — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 13:36:03 +0000

Life is all abouot fluctuations .. ups and downs. You have been working so hard on debt reduction that it’s only natural to feel a little bent about it right now. Especially this time of year. I can totally relate to that. We have been working hard on debt reduction too but the end of the year is always hard .. my birthday, our sons birthday, our anniversary and the holidays. Do what you can to make it through and Jan.1 will be a fresh new start!

By: Mandi

Mandi — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 13:33:56 +0000

Wow, Tricia!!!

I have to say that is probably the most inspiring entry yet. Your others are great, don’t get me wrong, but this one will stick with me over the season.

Even the most happy, chipper, goal oriented, and focused person can have an off day (bad day, bad week, and bad season). So why is it so wrong for the rest of the world to have a off day? This entry lets us know that you are like the rest of us (or at least like me), which means we really are not alone.

You can do it. Because it’s something that you want to do, not just for you, but for your whole family as well.

Good luck.

By: mapgirl

mapgirl — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 05:23:01 +0000

It’s times like these where you really have to talk a deep breath, and realize how far you’ve come. You really have achieved a lot by starting this great blog, building traffic and improving your net worth.

Everyone has fluctuations in their progress, but you’re doing ok. Chin up. I really believe you can do it.

By: Loopy

Loopy — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 03:37:59 +0000

You are such an inspiration to so many people! Our debt is about the same as yours and you give me hope. And tips. LOL

I said the other day that debt is like weight loss and gain. It took a while to get *that deep* and will take a loooong time to get out of it, just like weight.

By: Twinsmommy

Twinsmommy — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 02:39:10 +0000

Tricia,

I am not going to suggest that you should use your money for Christmas. You have been making great decisions for yourself and your family for the past year. You allow yourself and your family to spend money that you could use for debt repayment occasionally. If you feel like you should do that for the holidays…do that. If not, pay it towards debt.

I just want you to know that there are a lot of people out there that read your blog, identify with your situation and are pulling for you.

It is so hard to get out of debt. I know that you will be able to do it though!

Have a great Thanksgiving next week. Enjoy yourself…no matter what you decide to do with your money.

Lori

By: SCapitalist

SCapitalist — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 02:32:29 +0000

The holidays always add more stress. Don’t get down on yourself and stay positive. Keep you goals in sight, 2009 will come before you know it!

By: MOMM

MOMM — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 00:46:04 +0000

Doing what ‘D’ suggested is what my family is planning on doing, starting this paycheck (today). It makes me feel better *and* I know we won’t use all of the “extra” money anyway so I will be able to put a chunk onto the debt come Dec 26.

By: Maria

Maria — Wed, 15 Nov 2006 22:22:08 +0000

Hi. I have been following your blog ever since the write up in the Boston Globe and here are my thoughts: get a copy of “Hundred Dollar Holiday” by Bill McKibben or “Unplug the Christmas Machine” (I can’t recall the author)from your local library and take a look. You may find that spending LESS actually results in a MORE wonderful Christmas–it is certainly worth a try. Lots of people spend ridiculous amounts of money at this time of year and it brings no satisfaction whatsoever. In your case, the urgent need to pay off debt as fast as possible might turn out to be a plus. Your son will treasure time spent with you and your husband doing fun things like sleighing, baking, building snowmen etc. far more than any toy. An inexpensive Christmas that allows you to stick with your debt reduction program is not inconsistent with a wonderful Christmas! Finally, take as good care of yourself as you can. I’m also a mom who works and manages the family finances with a little input from my husband. I believe firmly in a good night’s sleep, a daily vitamin and focusing on all the many positives in life–health, family, progress with your debt reduction and so much more. Good luck!

By: Debt Challenger

Debt Challenger — Wed, 15 Nov 2006 21:27:26 +0000

Blogging,

Don’t be discouraged. Everyone is right this season is just what is getting you down. I always tend to get discouraged around Christmas. Just look at the things you have to be grateful for. 2009 isn’t that far away. Are you paying the highest interest or the smallest balance? Maybe for the winter you should focus on the smallest balance debt so that you can get that boost that you need to keep you going. Be encouraged and know that there are others out here who support and can sympathize with you.

Debt Challenger

By: Karen

Karen — Wed, 15 Nov 2006 21:13:04 +0000

I know EXACTLY how you feel. My cc debt is nearly identical to yours, except I am really just getting started on paying mine down and I’m divorced so I have one income and it is TOUGH. Sometimes I feel really really discouraged, and want that instant gratification (which is what got us into this mess in the first place) and I also have this sense of entitlement (Why can’t I have that? I deserve it!!) I also work long hours at my job and then do mystery shopping (which helps but really doesn’t pay much, although I do write off my high-speed internet which I guess makes it worthwhile just for that). OK, I’m rambling but basically just keep on plugging. I agree with the other posters that maybe you need to take a break but BE CAREFUL. I have a card I carry around in my wallet and I won’t bore you with the whole thing but basically it says, “It’s wrong to spend money I don’t have. There is always a way out and I won’t give up until I find it…..” Hang in there. You’re doing a GREAT job!

By: Chitowngirl

Chitowngirl — Wed, 15 Nov 2006 20:45:26 +0000

Writing your feelings down can help a lot. Everyone in debt has these moments…will it ever end? I want it gone NOW! I know, trust me. It’s not easy but I want you to look at all you have accomplished and take a bow. You are making progress and that is always a step in the right direction. I don’t know you, but anyone can be proud of what you have achieved. Keep up the good work and feel good about you.

By: Joane

Joane — Wed, 15 Nov 2006 20:42:05 +0000

Relax a bit and enjoy your Christmas with your little darling. Because life is too short. You make memories now. I don’t want you to have regrets later. You are doing very well. Reward your good work by relaxing for this special time of year.

As I went through the debt reduction process, when I hit goals, I would reward myself with something special for my home – a new pillow, brand new fluffy towels, etc. And I almost have it licked now.

Keep your perspective about life. We are all proud of you. I have sent your link to a lot of people who needed help. Someday I hope you know how many people you have assisted with their debt reduction. Way to go, girl.

By: Maria

Maria — Wed, 15 Nov 2006 19:50:03 +0000

I agree with ‘D.’ This time of the year is overwhelming as it is, but add the fast pace you’ve been keeping up and its a recipe for a huge meltdown.
From looking at your Archives, this will be the first Christmas that you havent used credit am I right? That’s going to be a hurdle in itself. Kids see a certain level of gifts and expect it each year. It can be overwhelming!

By: D

Wed, 15 Nov 2006 19:36:36 +0000

Maybe a slight break from your aggressive pay down is in order. I know that it is not the best financial decision, but the holidays are a stressful time for most people and sometimes a break is just what the doctor ordered. (I don’t mean a Rachel & Ross (Friends) kind of break either – LOL)

Would your world actually disolve in front of your eyes, if you slowed down until after Christmas?

Here is a suggestion from left field…you better sit down. I’m going to type this under my desk, sometimes people get quite upset with my ideas.

Deep Breath – OK then, starting right now. Only pay minimums on everything. Keep living like you are. Meaning don’t go out blowing all the cash on McDonalds. Then take that money that would be going to your debt and withdraw it from your checking account. Put it in an envelope marked Christmas Money.

Are you still there?? I know it is scarey, but sometimes we need this for our mental state. It is only 1 1/2 months, things will not be lost. All payments will still be made.

Then, use that envelope as your spending money for Christmas. Maybe for gifts, maybe for Christmas dinner, may be for ingredients to make cookies with your cutie pie.

The object is,

don’t create more debt for Christmas – thus you will be hit will extreme guilt. Maintain your debts – or you will be screaming at yourself for lost FICO points and payments that need to be caught up on later.Most importantly, keep your sanity and enjoy this time, which will be past so fast. You don’t get it back. Enjoy!

Then, as soon as December 26th arrives, it is back to business. No more vacation. You will feel refreshed and have a new sense of direction. In the end you will tackle your debt more efficiently and with an optimism that will spread to those around you and the rest of the blogger world.

My prayers for your peace, no matter where you chose to find it!